I think you have hit the nail on the head Electrogirl. I have never had a problem being chatted up but as soon as I meet them again for a meal or what ever, they start to get 'funny' with me, and think they can bed me and then dump me, I have been told many times I am 'stunning' and I do have a long line of 'suitors' but at the same time im very choosy lol, but I get told everyday as to why Im single, and also have been told by many guys that I could have any man i desire, this obviously is not the case, the latest man in my life has just got really paranoid with me and accused me of 'text flirting' and why am I with him when I can have any guy I desire...hmmm, I give up, beauty is indeed in the eye of the beholder - personally I am nothing special I am not 'unattractive' but i would not consider myself stunning.