BF trouble continued

[Kaylz1988]

I've been down this road b4 with my ex and I really dont want to go thru it again. It just all seems too close to home if you get what I mean!

I dont know what to do no more! All the time we argue its because of this moose! I said is this going to happen again and he said no, he only phones her if he needs to. If he cant get hold of his cousin! But I just dont know what to believe!!!

Am I being ridiculous or is there a method to my madness? I just want us to be happy, I dont want to feel insecure!!! But hes really not helping!

[fayelc123]

I wouldn't say your being 'ridiculous', it's hard to trust someone when they lie no matter how small the lie is.
Only you can decide whether you truly trust him or not.
What else does he say when you tell him how you feel??

[Kaylz1988]

Not much really. Just nothing is going on between them! But nothing really... maybe hes getting fed up with feeling hes justifying his self........

[cartman99]

Kaylz ,

You must feel a little isolated here, Ive followed your posts and note that you do not have a good relationship with his cousin. Seems like your being frozen out. He doesnt have to be seeing someone else to hurt you, lies are enough, have you explained this to him?

If you have and its no better i would be starting to think about an exit plan from this relationship.

Best of x x

[Kaylz1988]

To be honest with you I already am thinking about that!
If he continues not to listen to me and carries on lying then yeah I will.

I know it will be hard but hey thats life I suppose! I will get over it!!

thank x

[4getmenot]

wooohooo I'm back :-) all I have to say is I agree with cartman that you need to start looking at this relationship. You dont seem to ever be that happy and when you are theres always a niggling at the back of your mind. I've been there and if you dont trust him then thats not good. I would never check someone elses phone and I feel that if you felt you had to then theres trouble.

[nearlyahippy]

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