what to look for when you are ready to get pregnant....

[sky-de-sky]

I used to be on the birth control shot called Depo Provera but I have been off the shot for 7 years now and am finally getting a much more normal cycle, not 100% better but it's getting there....I am 28 about to be 29 and my husband of 4 years now is 33, we are ready to try and have a baby now....Will you always feel a sharp pain when your body is ovulating???? Whenever you keep an eye out on your cervical discharge, what will it look like when you body is ready to try and get pregnant???? I know that everyone says that it will look like egg white, sticky and streachy, but is it more clear or is it white or can it be both???? One day I had noticed a little spot of discharge in my underware that was white so I washed my hand with soap and water then I checked and noticed, not a lot but it wasnt a tiny bit either of white, sticky stuff on my fingers.....Could this maybe be a sign that I am ready to try and get pregnant or could it just maybe be from the night before with my husband???? If it is from the night before, I have never seen that before....I am soooooooooooooo confused, please can some one help me out......
Thank you all so much in advance to all who are able to help and assist.....
peace and smiles:)

[FUZZYBEE]

sky sweetheart you sound as if you are getting yourself in a bit of a tizz about becoming pregnant. I mean this in the nicest possible way.......stop analyzing what's going on in your knickers,get to the chemist buy some folic acid and take one a day. Relax and make love the same as you do now and hopefully it will happen in good time. Good on you for being aware what's going on in your own body and yes there are certain times in the month when you are more fertile but you seem to have done the right thing so far. You have not actively started trying yet so these worries are unfounded at the moment, if you have difficulty getting pregnant after quite a while (a year) then maybe that's the time to start looking a little deeper into your cycle etc etc. Good luck happy trying keep us informed.
x

[warpig3]

Excellent advice from fuzzybee. I can't add anything more as she has covered it completely!

[FUZZYBEE]

Ooohh thanks warpig, I'll get a big head I will
fuzzy x