unfaithful

[sosad]

why are we unfaithful? Is it out of fear? Is it out of trying to do the right thing and it all goes wrong? Why when you've been unfaithfull do you boys still get a hard on? aren't you surposed to be happy with your new love?

[4getmenot]

has something happened for you to say such things. And its not just men that are unfaithful.

[raysparx1]

Some people are very insecure and are constantly seeking new love,some get bored with the life they have,some people outgrow each other, as pa___ul says so many reasons, getting a hard on as you put it has really got nothing to do with it, there is an old saying, a standing dick, has no consciene, some people are very afarid of commitment and run away from it, and others seek constant excitement and new conquests.

[redcrx]

4get.
in short: sosad had an affair with a guy. Both were to leave their partners and live together. But sosads lover ran off with another instead. Sosad is now stuck with her husband but narked cos her lover cheated on her and has left her with an std.

[cazzz1975]

I personally have never been unfaithful, I couldnt say why people are unfaithful generally but like ray says its probably down to insecurity.

Being cheated on is a terrible thing, but being the cheater is even worse

[4getmenot]

oh so she cheated. Well say no more

[4getmenot]

sosad do you really think that leaving to be with your lover would last. he was very likely to do it again and hey ho he did

[cazzz1975]

red I think thats called what goes around,comes around!

[johnlambert]

It takes two to tango, and reading your new question you seem to be blaming the boys for being unfaithful, however, in a previous question posted by youi, you said you had just come out of a sexual relationship even though you were and still ARE married. Heaven knows I'm not in a position to judge you, I freely admit I was a true b4stard when it came to seeing other women but I keep hearing pot + kettle in your case

[confused79]

No really answer for that, apart from the hard on bit, being in love has nothing to do with the hard on.
As you may remember me saying before i have been cheated on twice and have tried to think about this one and there is no real answer as there are many many reason, but nothing to me excuses it.
I can sit back and say ok maybe its lack of communication, boredom, drifting apart, excitment, selfiishness or all of them put together, but as pa___ul says i could go on.

[redcrx]

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question430580.html
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion432203.html
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion432249.html
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question432578-2.html
http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/Q uestion432290.html

[cazzz1975]

also being a renowned cheater can screw up your future relationships

[redcrx]

I have to say that this bitterness you seem to have towards this man wont be doing you or your children any good.
Have you thought about seeing a counsellor at all? either on your own or with your husband?
Are you receiving any advice from your surgery following the news that you have the std which, from your posts, sounds like a serious one with long term effects

[johnlambert]

Jeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesus
std?
no wonder she's bitter and twisted, I missed that one

[confused79]

I thought she meant she was pregnant, i obviously never read them properly????????

[confused79]

living up to my name again!

[redcrx]

i thought pregnant at first but then in one of those posts she says std, that she doesnt sleep with her hubby so got it from this bloke that she cheated with.
Im just as confused as she doesnt seem so keen to state that she was having an affair with this guy.

[confused79]

Nice!!!! very confusing and a situation i would never want to be in myself.