Am i unreasonable??

[s_upergirl]

I met a guy a few weeks ago at a party and we've been dating since - with HIM asking to meet up 2-3 times a week - we had not yet discussed if we were a couple - however after 4 weeks of this he was going away with friends and i asked him if we could have a chat - i asked if he was going to be with other girls while away and he totally freaked out - he said he now wanted to slow things down as he thought that i was thinking we had a relationship - all i wanted to know was if he would be sleeping with other girls while on holiday - i didn't ask for a marriage proposal for christsake - am i unreasonable to think that if u r dating someone and sleeping with them that u r not seeing other people?????

[GIRL RACERS]

Morning s_supergirl. No you're not unresonable, you say you met this guy a few weeks ago. Pls dont take this the wrong way, but may I ask how long it took before you both sleept together.

[nuoyg]

Blokes like that really get on my wick - it is so ott.

You're not at all unreasonable. He is - the big over dramatiser!

[s_upergirl]

It was our 3rd or 4th date when we slept together girl racers - normally i would be more cautious be he is a friend of my sisters and she had said he was a nice guy!
And thanx nuoyg - i totally think he was ott!!

[justasking]

I hate all men at the minute, ALL MEN!

[annalou]

i'm with you justasking!! but the unfortunate thing is - we can't live without em...

[4getmenot]

no you are not being unreasonable, get out of this while you can, he is a player and is having his cake and eating it. He can do what he likes but I'm sure if you were to do that he would be annoyed. One rule for him....

[xhxmxsx]

totally unreasonable even if it isnt a case of wanting to clarify the relationship if he is sleeping with you then you have the right to know if he is going to sleep with other people, if he is going away on a lads holiday then chances are he will as that's what most men do on holidays especially as it's not serious. sti's/std's are on the increase so be very careful

[idly_enjoys]

I think he was unreasonable to fly off the handle like that but in my experience of "dating" then both parties can date/sleep with other people.

[fiest82]

No offense but you sound like a right tart, idly_enjoys.

[country_boy]

Not unreasonable at all. Just tell him it works both ways then - so you can have some fun too, bet he'll change his tune then!