Moving on.....

[fiest82]

This is for a friend who's a little confused about her relationship and isnt sure whether she should let it all go and move on? At what point do you think its better to let go?

[tiny e.a]

When you're unhappy more often than you are happy in the relationship.

[xhxmxsx]

when you aren' t happy, i have been with my fiance for just under 3 years and i still get the same feeling in my stomach every time i see him as i did the first time we met

[fiest82]

Thankyou, your replies have been really helpful.

[4getmenot]

tiny that is brilliant but have you ever heard the saying 'How come the only one that can stop you crying is the one that made you cry in the first place'

[fiest82]

I've told my friend that too, but she says they've had more bad times than good, so maybe there isnt much point in hanging around....

[idly_enjoys]

When it becomes more than 50% bad.

[fiest82]

I'll ask her to make a list and count it through then.

[MrBen5]

Hmmm, as soon as your asking yourself that question, then its time to move on. Once you have fallen out of love with someone then its hard to get that sparkle back.
Tell her to have a really hard think about it before she makes her mind up though, as she might just be a little confused about what she wants.
Its easy for women to be persuaded by friends to split with their partners and they usually regret it after they have done it...

[fiest82]

Thanks Mr Ben, lots of girls are jealous of her natural beauty, charm and wit but what can she do? Just has to live with it,I guess, I'll tell her to think it over well though.

[taperface]

Make a list of all the good and bad points - but be honest! If the bad outweigh the good, you might want to start asking yourself why you're hanging on. Being unhappy makes for a bad relationship anyway, so it'd be doing both you and your partner a favour if you accepted that sometimes, we need to move on.