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[maggie01]

Nice of you to remember me. Things couldn't be much worse at the moment. Our house is sold. The divorce papers have been signed and I am balling my eyes out at the moment cause my world is falling apart. The wedding went well even though it was a struggle. Daughter looked gorgeous but it was spoilt a bit for her with her dads behaviour. They haven't spoken much since. When your are down I guess the only way is up. Hope everything is ok with you.

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Oh maggie I am so sorry to hear of your troubles. I was rather hoping he came to his senses and you were reunited. You poor love , and all the subsequent upheaval as well. The wedding must have been bitter sweet for you and at least you managed to keep your composure at that eh? Of course relationships break-up, however it is the cruel and unthinking way the break-up happened that is hard to bear. It sounded from earlier on in the year you were unaware as to just how unhappy he was. And there you were going along when out of the blue he dropped his bombshell. Well maggie love I have been thinking of you and like many others on here, I am sure ,have the empathy to understand what you are going through. When ever you feel like a rant and rave get on here and have one. Just take things as slow as you can, if a day is too long , start with half a day. One day soon you will smile although I bet to you that seems most unlikely. The only was is up and you have already started on your way, big hugs for you, xx

[maggie01]

Thanks I needed that. I still see my husband and he rings and texts . I think he is finding it hard also. Once the divorce is over and i have moved house I can start thinking of me. At the moment every day in the post there is something to deal with and there is no getting away from it. I has to get better. I should be retiring in two weeks time and enjoying life but no chance of that at the moment. Will let you know what happens after divorce.