Lets talk about sex!

[ronnies girl]

compeard to most people my age my sexual expieriances are nil, meeting and now married to a guy who has plenty and also knowing friends who do plenty!!!!! i feel really inadequate does having expieriance really matter???

[taliesin238]

Hey my sis welcome to answerbank!!!
I dont think having experience counts! xxx

[ronnies girl]

not according to the people that do!!!!

[twiglet3]

It doesnt matter if you and your partner are both happy with your sex life. It doesnt matter what other people think!!!

And if you want more experiences then get in the mood with your partner and suggest some new things, try different things you might enjoy it .

[ronnies girl]

twiglet3 its so hard when we work full time he is sleeping on the couch now!!!!!!

[pingu97]

not at all! i personally think that no matter how much experience you've had it's still a whole new experience with a new partner if that makes sense. you have to learn about each other and everyones sexual needs n desires are different.
let him have fun teaching u n u have fun being taught! Don't be scared to suggest new things yourself, in my experince men find that quite sexy!

[twiglet3]

I know its difficult but instead of being on the computer you could go and seduce him now...wake him up with a sexy dance and then you know go to town on him!

[pingu97]

i know what u mean about him working hard, my hubby spends alot of time asleep on the couch, try n find little moments when u can grab a quickie! we have a 4yr old he works full time n im a full time student n we have a good sex life, even if it is always a quickie here n there!

[pingu97]

i agree with twiglet he's unlikely to turn u down now is he??

[ronnies girl]

your all right but not tonight hes really moody i need to try and get us time we have a 2 year old suppose thats just how it goes

[twiglet3]

I have a 7 year old and it doesnt get any easier!!!!! My 7yr old has taken his place in my bed for the moment!!!!!

You have just got to make that xtra little effort even if u are tired and would rather curl up with a hot water bottle, mug of hot chocolate and a good book!

[princesspie]

''...i feel really inadequate does having expieriance really matter???''

As long as you please your partner it doesn't matter where you've been or what you've done!!