embarrassing question

[speedyvic]

During sex I often have a heavy flow of fluids. I mean a lot of fluids two or three times during sex. It just gushes out like pee and the bed is soaked. From what I have heard and experienced vaginal *** does not flow out like that. Could I be urinating instead of cuming during sex? If so how can I stop this.

[garry745]

Hi Speedy. Won't claim to be an expert on this, as probably most men aren't. However, what I can tell you is that you're almost definitely not urinating. When me and my partner have sex, she will do exactly the same and our bed ends up soaking wet. Doesn't happen every time and depends upon what we're doing. Is definitely an orgasm, although a different type of orgasm, and happens when there is intense stimulation around her g-spot.

As to stopping it, maybe you should vary things a little and try also to find out yourself what causes it. We know what causes it in my partner, and what doesn't, so think you should really do your own exploration on this.

[Kaylz1988]

Hi, this happens to me all the time. The first time it happened I thought I wet myself but after talking to mates they said pretty much the same thing as garry. My boyfriend loves it when Im that wet. So I dont find it embarressing anymore. And when it does happen just think you can both go have a shower/bath together ;-)

[Ethel]

Search for 'female ejaculation' in Wikipedia and you will see you are totally normal.

[darlingnc]

i remember when i was on top, this happened to me and i thought i wet myself! i was sooo embarrased :-*

[someguy0000]

What the hell is 'SEX'?.....................

[speedyvic]

Thank you all, seems I'm perfectly normal. I only wanted to stop it if it wasn't c*m. My fella loves it (new fella, new experience, he must be doing something right) and i get off on his enjoyment. Might need to get rubber sheets though ;-)

[Skreecheeboy]

I'd suggest you try and sell it by the glass....