Personal Preferences, sexy clothes

[marriedmann]

Am I wrong or the only guy that begs his wife constantly to wear sexy or provocative clothes, or even beg for seeing her in at least the bedroom sporting a "toe"? Would women that get what they want from thier hubby do that for him if thats his turnon? I'm not a sicko, just feelin like I am the only one that feelsthis way.

[redcrx]

why would you want her to wear things if she didnt feel comfortable wearing them?

[Ice-Maiden]

If you beg constantly, you'll come over as a pest or a bore. Women who're loved for themselves, and who're treated with love and respect, will usually reciprocate to your advantage.

[B00]

I had to stop and ponder what a "toe" was, I wish I hadn't bothered now, feel queasy.

But like Red, I don't think you should push your wife to wear anthing she's uncomfortable wearing.

However i personally quite like wearing fishermans waders with a parsnip strapped to my head.

[redcrx]

careful B00 he may re-direct his attention lol

[weeal]

lol @ BOO

[Ice-Maiden]

Lol - that's what you CALL sexy!!

[Richie1976]

She likes dressing up for me!

[Pippa68]

This is obviously why she doesn't want to have sex with you right now. Too much pressure!

Have you actually asked her what it is SHE wants...or do you go to bed in filthy old shreddies?

[Reverandfunk]

Begs constantly?

You want to get a grip

[darlingnc]

i still dont get the "toe" thing, can anyone enlighten me

[Pippa68]

Am I the only one with a husband who prefers me nekkid?

[Pippa68]

Camel toe, darling...

Google images..that is all I can say!

[darlingnc]

PMSL pippa :-0

[Pippa68]

And OMG...you can buy a fake camel toe to wear in your pants or jeans!!! :-0

[tiny e.a]

You make the whole thing sound quite sleazy to be honest. Your wife is not obligated to sexually gratify you just because you work full time and help her out around the house, surely you don't consider these things a debt that she should pay back in kind?!

It is perfectly reasonable of you to want a sexual relationship and, if you like underwear, then it is reasonable to request that she wear it sometimes. But you should not expect it of her and if she doesn't want to there's not much you can do about it. You need to sit down with your wife and have a grown up conversation about your sexual relationship, what you would both like of the other and what you are both willing to do for the other.

[Pippa68]

I don't think blokes like this understand how uncomfortable some of this lingerie can be.

I once asked Mr P to wear a tight pair of grundies..he obliged, but vowed ''Never again''.

Cherish your wife and do it in the nuddy :o)

[marriedmann]

Well all of you females that replied, I can understand what you said, however, we have had the adult conversation about the ordeal. I am not the lazy hubby, I come home from work, pick up the kids, do the dishes, make supper so she doesnt need to, enjoy a nice dinner, put the kids to bed, do romatic things like massage her, set up a nice bath with candles and stuff, give her cards I made with the kids, tell her I love her, tell her how special she is to me and the kids, and stopped the "begging" as I so wrongley put it. After being the hubby that I know she needs, my question was supposed to be, is it wrong to keep giving and want to get that back in return but apparently it is to much to ask to get something back even if I give, give, give.

[Pippa68]

Never give expecting things in return ~ give because you want to.

You obviously have given her the message that you are doing it because you want her to wear a pair of crotchless pants and a peephole bra. That isn't nice.

She doesn't want to give ~ and you can't make her.

[gummybear]

Hi Marriedman - aghh i feel a bit sorry for you !!! You sound a great hubby and i dont think its too much to ask at all ! i have a a great Hubby who much does what you do ie we are a team !! He also prefurs me to get kitted out in naughty laungerie but with no pressure, just makes a big fuss when i do, i love to do it for him......if its anything to compare for you i prob get kitted out every Third or forth session ! in all fairness half the time its not planned more a role around mid sleep in bed...if he started ruining the mood by switching the lights on and opening my wardrobe id be a bit miffed if i was just wanting a naked play....maybe your wife is insecure about her body so while your getting off and feeling great she is so self conciouse its turning her off !! i dont know but i do know talking about it too much would turn me off !! Good Luck....x

[Louisa 69]

http://www.goodhousekeeping.com/health/womens/ women-sexual-desire-0307

See if this helps. ^^^^^
It could be that she's lost interest in sex, for all manner of reasons . Try taking her away for a romantic weekend but make it clear that your not putting any pressure on her. I've also heard that some women like the idea of being courted again, try that, you never know.