thank you

[oldgrape]

may i just say thanks again you lot have really helped i am out here on my own although i don't know you by face you are truelly good friends i was close to dispair and now can see hope. villagevicar THANK YOU
legend will you marry me hee hee not really

i have taken all of the villagevicars advice on board i already had the locks changed last sunday i have contacted the local police to inform of situation which could arise and will be getting a solicitor asap

I was so close to deep depression even contiplated suicide (decided against as what sort of life would my son have)
You guys have saved me 2nite and i don't know how to say how gratuful and thankful 4u lot

Answerbank isn't just for arguing there are genuine caring loving people on here.

You have made me strong where i was weak

I MAY NOT HAVE PULLED THROUGH WITHOUT YOU

THANK YOU

THANK YOU

THANK YOU

[Psychick]

There is always hope, please remember that! And trust me, I have too have been in such desperate situations where I have considered suicide! But the better life waiting for you is worth fighting for!

I just wish there was more I could do, if there is anything else, please do not hesitate to ask!

Legend and V V, You chaps deserve a medal, what wonderful chaps you are!

Good luck with tomorrow and the rest of your life oldgrape, keep us informed on how things are!

Are you keeping the stuff tomorrow?

[dove]

i love the support you have had today grape.
I wish you all the best in whatever happens to you,
You will be strong, cos you will have to be.. Believe me I have been there.

B good
xx

[unrulyjulie]

Old grape, im so pleased you are feeling stronger now. I had the exact same scenario 3 months ago. My ex (who i told to leave) was coming to take everything from this house, the tv, the comp, the stereo, my sofa trhe cooker the freezer(he didn't want them but said he would dump them just so i couldnt have them) you name it.

stood firm and told him under no circumstances was anything leaving this house without the say so from a court. I told him if he turned up trying to take my things i would call the police.


He cannot take a thing out of your home. Don't let him call the shots! Be strong and go to see a solicitor asap! there is loads of help out there.

Years ago, i put up with an awful lot from my first husband. I put up with nearly 2 years of crap and vowed i would never let this happen to me again! I didnt and it worked. You show him you arent he weak little woman he seems to think you are. Think of babygrape and be strong!
Good luck but it sounds to me like you're gonna be just fine after all
XXX

[cazzz1975]

Hi grape, Its good to see you here, we are all here for you and we all mean everything that we have said, best of luck with tomorrow, make sure you lean on everyone possible to get you through this difficult time.

let us know (if you can) how things are going, I will be thinking of you

caz

[B00]

Grapey xxx

If you still need help towards a telly and 'puter let us know, though I hope you've now got the courage to tell him to naff orfff tomorrow!

Here's hoping you do the above and we'll be seeing you tomorrow night :-)

[grasscarp]

You have something wonderful in baby grape. When I saw the film of him in the bath I was captivated. You have a whole army of people out here standing by to help in whatever way we can.

[Petal~flower]

been reading your posts oldgrape, But I often find it difficult to reply to posts like yours. Face to face I could, but on the pc, I find it hard. So sorry.

But you have been through a terrible time, with your baby, and now this. I can only send you my thoughts, and really good luck wishes to you.

I have had some really bad times too. And have got through them, but only by looking back now, I realise how strong I was, but didn't realise it at the time. As like you, I was just getting through it.

You have a lot of support on here oldgrape. So hold on to that. Not much good at pixels on here. But sending you a big hug xx

[hau kola]

Thinking of you grapey,take care.xxxxxx

[pussnboots]

oldgrape. I know its hard for you to see beyond now, but I believe that all things happen for a reason. Sounds to me that you will be better off in the long run without your so called partner. He seems to be a waste of time. All you can do is live from day to day with your children, don't let HIM put you down or make you feel sad anymore. One day there will be someone out there who will love and protect you. I know that this seems alien now, but it will happen, but first you have to get this man out of your life and hold your head up, be glad he's gone...tomorrow is the first day of your life....glad you are getting some support from Fr. Bill.

[Metz]

only just caught up with msgs..work gets in the way.. will help out in anyway i can

[chicklin]

Well done so far oldgrape! Stick to your guns and he can take a running jump! lol!

Stay strong and keep thinking of how much babygrape needs his mum xxx
No-one can look after him like you can - and suicide is not the answer, I know that.
I tried it but luckily failed and have been grateful ever since...it solves nothing.
Good Luck for tomorow xxxx

[Ice-Maiden]

Hello Oldgrape. I just want to say that you most certainly AREN'T weak. You'll come out of this better than you ever expected, but not surprisingly, things've left you depressed. I wish you all the best for the future - x.

[Aprilis]

Oldgrape, always remember that you are worth being treated with love and kindness and accept nothing less from anyone.

If you still have internet access and you fancy letting off steam to someone, you can contact me at [email protected]. I set the email addy up today just for you!

As others have said, you will come through this happier and stronger than before, hang on in there hon. It's all grief for now but it will be worth it in the long run.

xAx

[VillageVicar]

Well Mrs Grape...as you can see...you're wrapped in lots of arms right now! :-)

I'm proud of you for having taken the steps we discussed last night. As promised this morning, we'll have a chin-wag this evening.

I see Aprilis has reached you...I was going to give you her email address this evening.. She's close by...nice to have other arms as well :-)

We'll get things sorted. Stay strong!

Fr B

[bensmum]

(Comes in late as usual!)
Glad to hear you're feeling stroger and are taking steps to overcome your problems
I have been there and got through the bad times and so will you. It's hard now but you have people watching out for you and I know we will all want to do whatever we can to help.
Take care
XX

[bigmamma]

Oldgrape honey , not sure if you will get back to this post but I just want to say I hope you are ok and safe tonight :-)
xxx (( hug ))

[smudge]

Glad you're feeling a bit better oldgrape & that you've received lots of comfort & helpful advice on here.

As the song goes:

"Look to the future now, it's only just begun".

(Even tho' I don't like Slade - lol)

-xx-