Girl just turned me down. What do you think she is thinking?

[stlunaticajv]

Consider if you had a long distance bf, but there is this close friend who's always there for you and working really, REALLY hard to make you happy -- something that NO other guy has ever done for you.

This guy could be considered your best friend, and you know that he likes you. You have continued to accept his favors towards you, and you know he is working really hard for you to be happy.

Then he takes you to the river, writes down a speech on cards and shows it to you, one sentence by one sentence, ending with the words: "Will you go out with me?" He then takes out a dozen roses and gives them to you.

You say, "I can't take this, I have a bf"

He is kind to you driving you home but very few words are said. You say, "That was a very sweet and romantic thing to do, but I have a bf. You know I have a boyfriend. You know him."
The boy says "I was just trying to be honest."
You say, "I appreciate your honesty"


What do you think she's thinking about tonight? Do you think she'll have second thoughts? Why do you think she accepted all those favors from me in the first place?

[ChocolatChip]

She may feel a little guilty for letting you down, and I iamgine things would change between you, but as she says- she has a boyfriend. Long distance or not, and that obviously means something to her. And maybe she just thought that youwere doing those favours as a good friend?

[figure]

Maybe she will think about 'the' situation and may try to avoid you in future. Also it must have been very uncomfortable for her.

What I don't understand is - why did you put yourself through this, and her in this situation when you know she already have a boyfriend.

She probably accepted those favours because she thought you were being kind and comforting to her, especially since you knew her boyfriend is away. My guess is that you read more into this friendship than she does. She only saw you as a loyal and faithful friend.

[REDHEAD24]

HI,
I THINK SHE accepted them as she saw you as a friend ( no threat ) she proably know did not you felt that way

however what you did was very sweet, just sit back and see what happens , she will think about it of course and is prob very suprised , back off , see what happens

[Skreecheeboy]

Might have been romantic but not the most sensitive person in the world now are you?

[trundle]

Whats all that &qout business about? haven't you inverted comma's on your keyboard? like these "

[tattoomaster]

may be lond distance but back off would you like it if it was the other way round???