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[me and kev]

i dont know if this even belongs here... but im going to ask anyways.
my boyfriend and i have been together for almost 2 years. he has been my best friends for about 6years. anyways, a while ago he got mad at me for talking to a guy (he was my bestfriends boyfriend) but my boyfriend didnt know that. well today i called him and he was at the mall with some chick i have never even met. my friend is trying to date her but yet my boyfriend is hanging out with her. is it alright that i am mad about this or am i just making it into way to much?

[Ice.Maiden]

Do you mind me asking how old you all are? If you're all just friends, then it should be no problem for either your boyfriend or you, if one of the other is with another friend. A good relationshiop has to be based on trust, and if that doesn't exist, there's no point in being together. Nothing kills feelings quicker than showing jealousy.

[Le Chat]

If he wants to be with someone else (which is ultimately the perceived problem) then he should just say so and vice versa.
You can be mad if you like but I take it that he told you he was out at the mall with her quite freely? People with nothing to hide, hide nothing!
Sounds all very immature stuff to me.

[MONTCRIEFF49]

pull him about it

and tell him to explain why its
ok for him to chat to birds and not you to talk to guys

[ginger85]

i think ur just a littlebite jelous and jelousy is a good thing it only makes your relationship stronger but if you are really worried let your boyfriend know your concerns i�msure he�llbe happy that you express the same concerns as he does. don�t worry it�snormal. trust i am just the same.

[Ice.Maiden]

Jealousy is only a good thing if it's constructive jealousy.

[me and kev]

we talked about it and he understands... thats one good thing about having a GREAT boyfriend. He said it was really weird hanging out with her and that after they left, the chick and our friend were all over eachother. making him miss me more then ever. hes a sweety.