unlucky in love

[Blu-eyed-gal]

ein year seven i was called fat and ugly by people in my school, It's been five years now and i still can't shake the feeling that guys think i'm ugly. no-one seems to liek me as more then a friend. my friends tell me it's because i dnt no how to flirt. so i have to questions:
A) has anyone got any tips for flirting?
and
B)how do u no wen a guy likes u as more then a friend?

[flipnflap]

no need to flirt, or to try at all. Just be yourself and your prince will come along. Maybe need to work on your self-esteem though - if you don't rate yourself, others may not either, and vice versa. In answer to your second question, you'll just know instinctively.

Why not post a photo of yourself on here and you may get some interest?

[weeal]

I agree with flipnflap (lol at the name)
Kids are often cruel and I bet they didnt even know what they were saying when they called you fat and ugly. Dont let anyone ruin your self esteem, now that youre brave enough to venture on here and ask the question be rest assured you will gain new faith in yourself.
You dont have to flirt at all. Be yourself. Focus on all your plus points, whether its looks or personality (or both) !

[legend758duo]

Wait until youre a grown up.it will be easier then,

[society]

According to your post if my calculations are correct, it means you are 12. I totally agree with Legend. Grow up first.

[China Doll]

The greatest attention you will draw to yourself is being happy and confident in your own skin. Flirting tricks don't work, besides which we do it naturally anyway. If there's someone you like then just be engaging in conversation and interested in what they have to say, if you have a viewpoint on what they're saying, even better. Mostly just smile and laugh and enjoy yourself, focus on what you do have and like about yourself and you'll find others will be drawn to you anyway.

[weeal]

I assumed year 7 was school year 7 and she is now 17?

[ChocolatChip]

Legend and society (shes actually 17), I think that she's after a more, here and now fix. Rather than wait until you're older.
I was exactly like you when I was younger (like, a couple of years ago), I was bullied through all my school life to the end to my teather. I never had a boyfriend, no-one fancied me. I thought I was fat, ugly, worthless. All the things I've been told. But now I believe that because I'm still here that makes me stronger and better than anyone that ever hurt me.
Do things that make you feel good about yourself, glam up, go out shopping, clubbing etc. Just forget about guys, They're much more trouble than they seem. And someone will walk into your life without you knowing. You never know, he might be there right now. It WILL happen.
And don't think that everyone with a boyfriend has a wonderful life, boyfriends can be 'difficult'
And the girls with lots of boyfriends are sl*gs basically. Don't give yourself away too easily.

[Blu-eyed-gal]

wow thanks guys! i understand what u mean about growing up, its just hard wen all ur mates get guys, i fu no wat i mean. Im not looking for anything serious!
THANKS!
X

[society]

Just goes to show sometimes we interpret things differently.
If you are seventeen, I'm sorry about my remark. But, you are still young so take it slowly and don't rush things, and look for good quality. The most important thing right now is to concentrate on getting a good education. Boyfriend will come when the time is right. ChinaD give you some great advice.

[Sugar&spice]

Dont worry Blu-eyed-gal

I know you and you are LOVELY and NOT fat!

Everyone's answers here are really great so i hope they've helped you and remember you have me to talk to and you are a very liked and loved girlie so don't put yourself down!

xxxxx

[heart braker]

do you have any links to photos of yourself?