FWB turning into more?

[ImAmaliaBede]

We've been friends for over a year, and I consider him one of my best friends. After about 6 months, we started sleeping with each other. We've never discussed what it is we are, but now its been almost a year since we've actually been sleeping together and I'm confused. We don't JUST sleep together. We go out and do things, concerts, dinner, movies. We even have lunch once a week during his work break. In front of his friends, he'll hold my hand or kiss me, rub my back, etc. In the car, he'll ALWAYS put his hand on my leg while he's driving ( I know it's lame but its only something boyfriends have done.) We'll spend entire weekends together, and just cuddle all day. We text EVERY single day, literally not one day passes where we don't talk, and because of that I'm almost positive he isn't seeing other people. What does it mean when he'll often say "my princess" in these texts?! I think I've fallen for him :( But I know in the past he's said he doesn't think relationships last. He'll wrap his arms around me all night, and doesn't let go, even kissing me before we go to sleep and if I stay over while he works, he'll kiss me before he leaves for work. He'll even text me as soon as he drops me off (yes he takes me home), and we'll end up texting all day as usual. What I don't know is how many other girls he's seeing, though I doubt there are any because I spend almost every weekend, all weekend with him. As far as the paying- he usually does. I try to fight him for it and sometimes I pay, otherwise he always offers. And just last night we went out to watch a movie and then hang out at his place, and he held my hand the entire night! And when I woke up he again had both of his arms wrapped around me. And he's always kissing me. I want this to be more than friends :(

[CheekyChops]

It sounds like more than friends already if you ask me - some boyfriends are not this attentive! I think you need to have a chat with him and explain how you feel, ask him how he sees the relationship. Maybe he sees you as his girlfriend already and just assumed you see it the same way?

[Sugar&spice]

It does sound like you are more than friends now, no question of if you are or not. He obviously adores you but can you talk to him about serious things like this relationship? If you were very close you would be able to talk to him about this. Maybe you are close but havnt got round to it yet.

My advise would be to talk to him, face to face, dont make it too serious, just ask what your relationship is, and whether he's with anyone else. He may be wondering the same things about you!

Go for it girl!

[teag1rl]

Haven't read the exact sane question before?
I think the advice then was much the same -sounds like you're already more than friends!

[redcrx]

youre right TG.

Just to refresh your memory of the previous answers. http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question499812.html

[JonnyBoy12]

You sound like a very devoted couple to me, never mind just a FWB. Where can I find one of these elusive FWBs anyway? I am, as most other ABers know, very single and would love to find someone like this. How do you make the transition from just good friends to FWB anyway? Answers would be appreciated.

[ImAmaliaBede]

to respond Jonny- we didn't really make a transition. We went on what I guess you would call a couple of "friendly" dates, saw each other for about 6 months, never really exclusive. And then one day, I was rebounding from an awful boyfriend, and we ended up sleeping together. Its been that way for a year now.

[helpinghand]

sounds like he don't like to label things it maybe that he feels like when you put a label on it it will fail i myself was like that until i meet my husband always expecting the worst and every thing was to good to be true just don't worry about the label if you enjoy each others company then why worry about a label

[Youravonlady]

Its Leap Year, propose to him on 14th Feb

[tattoomaster]

just face it your in love with each other all the best to you both have a happy life together xx

[eeveea]

Is there ANYTHING he does that should make you doubt him?
If not then he may be offended when you ask him whether he's seeing anyone else!
Ask yourself if you're being too paranoid - It may seem too good to be true - but that's what love is :)