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Whats the oldest for having kids?
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Hi people I would just like an opinion on a issue that has come up between me and my partner. I am 26 and he is 22. I have a child of 4 already from a previous relationship. I want to have completed my family by the time I am 35(max) as my mother died young of breast cancer. My partner, however, doesnt think he will want kids until he is 30 and by then I dont think I will be wanting to have more kids. Im not saying i want a child now as i am in the middle of training to be a nurse. Im thinking when im 29 and hes 25. Any opinions?
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For more on marking an answer as the "Best Answer", please visit our FAQ.can i just ask why your mums death so young means you want to complete your family at an earlier age?
Personally i wanted children before the age of 28, it didnt happen and i had my first at 32 and am expecting my second now at 35.
Plus if you wait until hes 30, you would be 34 and not beyond the maximujm you stated anyway.
Personally i wanted children before the age of 28, it didnt happen and i had my first at 32 and am expecting my second now at 35.
Plus if you wait until hes 30, you would be 34 and not beyond the maximujm you stated anyway.
I would never try to force him. To be fair on him he has said maybe he is just scared as he has never even held a baby and may want one sooner.
My mum dying young is the reason as breast cancer runs in the family and I was 17 when she died and my sister 10. She was 39 when she had my sister. Make more sense now?
Another reason why I want kids younger (btw we want 2 more), and my fella agrees with this reasoning, is because we want to emigrate when the kids are old enough to have a say in where etc and I dont want to be emigrating too late in life.
My mum dying young is the reason as breast cancer runs in the family and I was 17 when she died and my sister 10. She was 39 when she had my sister. Make more sense now?
Another reason why I want kids younger (btw we want 2 more), and my fella agrees with this reasoning, is because we want to emigrate when the kids are old enough to have a say in where etc and I dont want to be emigrating too late in life.
Hi
I wanted my children young and had my 2 daughters when I was just 18
This meant that by the time they grew up I was still young enough to do more with my life
Then when I was 35, I found out I was pregnant again
My son is now nearly 2, and although he was a great shock, I wouldn't have it any other way
This time round I am a single parent as my ex husband didn't want anymore children
So I suppose sometimes things don't always go as planned but I am much more layed back and enjoy my son more than I did when I was so young with my girls
Best wishes
Michelle xx
I wanted my children young and had my 2 daughters when I was just 18
This meant that by the time they grew up I was still young enough to do more with my life
Then when I was 35, I found out I was pregnant again
My son is now nearly 2, and although he was a great shock, I wouldn't have it any other way
This time round I am a single parent as my ex husband didn't want anymore children
So I suppose sometimes things don't always go as planned but I am much more layed back and enjoy my son more than I did when I was so young with my girls
Best wishes
Michelle xx
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