perfect partner?

[cuddleMe]

Is there such thing as a perfect partner?

i dont think ive met mine. or ever? i dont know if it exist?, even my last werent perfect but i just focus on the good side of him, and block out the anoyance, but i got too peed of, i did something about it, -mayb he wasnt mine afterall?- i think ive made the right decision.

we also had this discussion at work and this guy said, there will always b a perfect partner for everyone, but u just dont see it, u may find some parts of that person is irratating or annoying but he/she is stil perfect for you.... i dunno if i agree with that, what do u guys think??

would a perfect partner stil lie, hurt and cheat on u? and why do ppl go bk to them even thu they've lied, hurt or cheated on u? love is blind? or insecure? scared?

[taliesin238]

I see a perfect partner as someone who you could spend the rest of your life with and you just both understand each other. Also the way i see it is that a perfect parner wouldnt be a perfect parnter without the annoying traits,the little love tiffs and the wanting to tear their hair out moments. All of that is a part of a normal relationship. How boring would a relationship be without any of that!!

[silly~lilly]

dont give up on finding him cuddleme. I finally found my "perfect man" later in my life than i wish i had but and it took some getting there. he isnt perfect, no one is, im sure hed be the 1st to admit, but for me, he is. he is everything i want in a man.
hope you find him soon.

[~max~]

I don't think anyone is "perfect" for anyone. You can come close, but you'll never achieve a no argument, no irritations, no little annoying quirks relationship. And wouldn't that be boring anyway? Someone has to challenge you, make you think, make you wonder, and make you smile for you to love them, I think. Of course, that doen't mean you should settle for less than what you want. A cheater, a liar or a violent person can never be a good partner as they will never care enough. But nobody is perfect, and I think that the little quirks actually make it fun! I have found such a man for me, unfortunately, he is my best friend....
Keep smiling hun! xxx

[cuddleMe]

like your answer Taliesin :)
perfect man or ideal man? whats the different?

mine would probably b someone who i can trust, understand, be there for each other, share and do things together...... i might add more on to this .......

[haysi06]

A perfect partner would not lie, hurt and cheat on you.

End of.

[Quoi]

I think a perfect partner doesnt have to last a life time - people change and whats perfect for you now may not be perfect in 5 years. How would you know if they were perfect until you have spent a lifetime finding out?

[cuddleMe]

mr bean your answer didnt help, r u avoiding the question?

[cuddleMe]

thanks guys i like your views, apart from Mr bean....the name says it all :P doesnt take relationship seriously but takes it as a game, thats cool some ppl do prefer that.

[Ice.Maiden]

Loads of good answers here. There's no such thing as perfect, but if you can put up with each other's odd bad habits, and still have a mutual respect, attraction and happiness - it's near as damn it. x

[lil123]

I just wish I could meet someone who was nice and caring and understanding
I don't think the perfect partner exists lol x

[cuddleMe]

lil123

i did meet someone who was nice, caring and understanding but i was not his type.

you may meet the person who u may think is perfect but he/she may not think youre perfect for him/her. if that make any sense??

[unrulyjulie]

I think finding the perfect partner involves loving them despite all their imperfections and vice versa.

Of course there is no such thing as "perfect" as such, but as long as we take the imperfections and accept those as well as all the perfections, things should be wonderful.

If youre looking for absolute perfection then you'll always be dissapointed. Its finding whats perfect for us that counts and loving someone regardless.

[lil123]

Yes cuddleme , it does make sense
I think there is someone for everyone out there but like you say it has to be right for both people
thanks x

[debbbie33]

yes i believe everyone has a soulmate out there. there is no need to go hunting for them. even at the most inappropriate time you will meet them. a perfect partner is the one that even after years together you just have to think about them and they make you smile. guess i found mine. dont despair the one will be there eventually when you least expect it. good luck

[legend004]

A perfect partner would have flaws , but they would be 100% honest and never deceive you.
Honesty is more important than looks or anything else.
You can get fake t1ts , fake botox smiles , liposuction , fake tan.

But honesty cant be faked.
Sadly its a rare commodity these days when looking for a partner.

[cuddleMe]

im depressed :( i wish i had someone to hold me, to talk to, share things etc :( hate being on my own.

[cruella]

That special person will come into your life when you are least expecting it.
Legened is right.
Honesty has to be one of the unspoken rules too.
Also trust.
Without that you have nothing.
I have the the most caring loving Husband any woman could wish for.
Just be patient. I waited a long time until he came along.
good luck. xx

[cuddleMe]

thnks cruella! i realy thought i met one last yr (i wasnt expecting anything would happen) but i was in my little bubble then, it all went wrong and it burst :( im sick of waiting!! and yes trust, honesty n faithful is really important, without that u r living with worry all the time, if u are worry about your partner being unfaithful then its not love.

love is something that u trust your partner 100% and have no doubts what that person gets up to when they r away. but its realy hard to trust men nowadays!!

cruella u r soooo lucky that you've found the 'one' :) who cares and treats u well i hope my comes along soon than later xxxx