If an Aber had a crush on you, would you be embarrassed, worried or flattered?
When you in the physical world see someone, if you consider them good looking you are flattered, if you consider them unattractive, you think what a cheek for thinking they have a chance?
I would be all three that you mention.
Only because I am married and love my Husband to bits.
I have quite a few male friends through work that I get on great with, but would run a mile if I thought they were more than just great pals.
So 3 think they would be flattered, but 1 not so sure
In answer to DTH ? much as I don't like agreeing with you, yes it does.
I don't intend to cyberstalk my crushee (is that a word?) or name the poster whose postings, currently lead me to imagine that they are every bit as goodlooking as they are articulate, witty and erudite, but I am assuming we all have our little harmless crushes that go nowhere but our own imagination - or is it only me!
Ive a bit of a crush on Octavius, but then I think alot of us female ABers do! That's only because his answers always make sense and are usually very funny in a tongue in cheek way, however i wouldn't dream of trying to take it further (assuming he wasn't sobbing in a corner from my affections anyway)
I've not seen a piccy of him, nor do I want to- I'd really hate to be disapointed (sorry Octavius!)
If someone had a crush on me, I'd be mortally embarrased and would nip it in the bud ASAP- can't be doing with all those shenanighans.
Dunno .How can you tell if someones really horrible on here or just being horrible .Afterall we can all be horrible at times .There are no angels on earth.