age gap relationships

[SHELLP]

me again does anyone think age gap relationships can work The woman is 20 years younger with a five year old child, the man likes to be out all the time without responsiblities. she still lives at home with parents so babysitters not a problem

[unhappychick]

Stop worrying about this new woman, judging by what you have said, its not gonna last anyway....your better off rid and deep down you know it, like I said in my previous reply to your other post...its hard accepting what has happened and coming to the realisation that the man is just a nasty piece of work and not who you thought he was....give yourself time!

[sara3]

Shell, stop over-analysing! let them get on with it, and rise above it.

[Cloudy1]

Sorry but Raggy Roman - how on earth do your comments help?

I agree she should stop dwelling but its bloomin hard when someone has (and I am surmising here) destroyed all your self esteem and sounds a little (if not a lot) violent.

Then having someone else tell you that you 'have a problem' REALLY makes you feel better.

If you don't know what she wants, then you can't help her so why respond?

Give the poor woman a break, some supportive words or the notion that all men aren't like that, tough love like �pull yourself together, he�s not worth it may be helpful� but please try to be understanding!

And I'm interested to know, what is a typical woman? Hopefully her alcohol, violent, self-centred ex wasn't a 'typical man'.