laways difficult when you work together , but perhaps a relationship is not quite right just yet , perhaps if you really like him and you feel you could have a future with him continue going out as friends, having a drink, having a laff etc etc , the rest will come naturally , sometimes people are frightened of relinqueshing the freedom and independance they have built around themselves and shut off if they feel they might get hurt , forget the relationship thing , just have fun as friends do ....