Men!!

[GemJonno]

I work with a guy who I really like, and he says he only likes me as a good mate - yet all the time he's making little comments at me about sex etc.

Am I being paranoid or is he trying to screw with my head?

[weeal]

he's trying to screw your head up saying one thing and doing another, he obviously loves the attention, forget him sorry

[danglee]

Is he by any chance married /in a relationship ?Possibly sounding you out as the bit on the side i think.Either that or he thinks youre easy but cant be bothered or doesnt like the iodea of going out with you.

Give him a wide berth , go for the boring guy in the office , hes probably far more reliable , if a bit duller.

In life theres always a trade off.

D T H ?

[pmorris1961]

some people, not just men, are more comfortable with people they have told that they arent interested in.................. as in "ive told you im not interested in you, so i can flirt with you cos i can always say at a later date, well i told you i wasnt interested...."

he is giving you mixed messages, and he may or may not be screwing with your head but i think he will always come back to " i told you we were just mates" even as he got out of your bed.....................................

you know and every one here agrees that you should walk away, laugh at his comments, see him for what he is and move on................................

so why dont you ???

that is the 10 million dollar question that us women who hang on to a man who is playing games needs to ask our selves..............................

why dont you move on ??

[GemJonno]

No, he's not in a relationship or anything - we have a bit of a past and now I think he's just playing on the fact that I really like him because he knows it gets to me. :(

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[MrBen5]

Hmmm, he can sense your desperation and your right, he is screwing with your head.
Because of your past, he knows you, and thinks he can have the best of both worlds by having sex with you when he feels like it, but no commitment.
If you fancy him and are after a night out. Turn it round and use him to buy you stuff, etc.
But i doubt you will be able to do that as you seem too weak and would probably get too emotionally involved.
Your better off telling him to stop making them comments about you and that your not that type of girl.
It will gain you respect with him, and if he is actually interested in you he will try a different approach...

[sara3]

he's a flirt. he's not interested in you in the same way as you're interested in him.. sorry.

[GemJonno]

Hey, thanks everyone for your advice - I've decided to stay well away from now on, it's not worth the pain.

[flump2]

record a fanny fart and play it to him. watch his reaction

[WhiteBear]

he just wanna get laid!! freaking men eh?

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Hey, Im pleased its all sorted thats ace! Jez

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[brenda]

I don't think it's just your head he's trying to screw.

Get real . Leave well, well alone.

[GemJonno]

Once again thanks for your answers - well the fact that everyone has said the same thing just proves that you guys must be right!

[peanut273]

na he's just a gur really!!
Meet someone else! :)