when you are in a unsatisfied relationship, but not totally bad one,would you

[mirela]

1, find someone better first, then finished the wrong relationship
2,finish the unsatisified realtionship first, then being single for a while then start looking for another one
3, keep the relationship and at same time develope another one, then keep them both
4,scared of start a new one, as worrying the new one probably got other problems, so even not satisfied with the current, still carry on, live with it
5, give it a timeline, wait and see if situation can get any better, then decide

[Barmaid]

None of the above. If the relationship was not bad, but a little unsatisfying, I would try communication in order to fix the unsatisfying part.

[redcrx]

if youve tried and failed and getting the relationship to work then split before starting another

[mirela]

if you try, how many times and how long would you give it?

[monkeywiener]

oh dear.... looks like I have problems

[redcrx]

if you tried and it failed then move on. No point in continuing to try and make it work.

[mirela]

oh btw, if any ladies over there, just general question, do you think you are more patient when you are younger? when you reach a certain age, feel clock ticking, and dont want to wait too long to wait a problem to get fixed?

[joggerjayne]

Anything except 1 or 3.

Always be loyal and faithful.

Totally, totally, totally.

To your lover, and to your friends.

[Tups]

Horrible situation but I would go for no. 2 and stick to the last part of being single for a while. Think we all need to be able to exist without the help of someone, even for a short time. Restores our self-esteem and confidence. It also helps prevent jumping from the frying pan into the fire. Good luck.

[Bbbananas]

I'm definitely more patient the older I get.
But I don't have to worry about my biological clock ticking - I had my children at 21 and 23.
Although, I was reasonably patient with them even though I was young myself - I supose its because I had more energy.

You are obviously thinking about your bio clock - so if your relationship is as unsatisfactory as you are hinting it is, then maybe it's not the sort of relationship you should plan to bring children into?

If it can't be fixed - move on.
But remember - men don't like desperate women and it does show (dense as they are sometimes, bless 'em)

[Tups]

Think you should start a new thread with that last question mirela. It needs consideration on its own.

[monkeywiener]

y u poswting this on a public web site when u know i read it? y dont you sign up for faceparty again then?

[redcrx]

no mirela, I have found that some relationships try patience more though.

Perhaps as you get older you have more experience and dont feel obliged to stay with someone just to pass the time.

[mirela]

jayne, i agree with you, i am always faithful, some friends said im silly tho, i guess because they have been hurted badly in their previous relationship, so try to protect themself first now. so they would go for no 1!?

[4getmenot]

give it a timeline, wait and see if situation can get any better, then if it doesnt finish the unsatisified realtionship first, then being single for a while then start looking for another one

[redcrx]

Im sure she realises youre reading it gravy

[mirela]

monkey, i just ask general questions here, as few of my mates have been discussing about this questions and i want to see other people's view. dont overreact...!!!

[Bbbananas]

errr, have mirela and monkey got a history here folks? there's something going on, and I feel the rest of us are possibly intruding.

Go get a room you two, slug it out in private!!!

[mirela]

hi salla, lol people know gravy is my bf. he is a bit overreact i guess, as i m just askinga general questions.

[mirela]

i have been arguing about the questions with few friends, and they all seem tend to go no1 or no4, i dont really agree with them, as most of them from asia, so i thought i asking a question here and see if i am the silly one.

[joggerjayne]

Mirela ... stick to your principles. Good you.

It's not always easy to be 100% loyal but, if you give loyalty, then you can expect loyalty back, especially from your friends.