How dya break out of a non relationship wi a reeelly nice lad? help !

[torn-in-two]

Hey, You might of seen my other question just from the other day " Am i being stupid? "..

Well I have come to the conclusion I need to stop messing this fella i have been dating ( but am not with ) about..

The problem however... This fella is soo nice, we have never had a fight, he makes me laugh... and is always there for me and likes to have a gud time with me...

I know what your thinking... Sounds like a great fella why wud yeh wanna stop dating him?!.. But to be honest he is the complete oppostite of my normal kinda fella I would be attracted to, which i thought might of been a good move for change.... but it really wasnt !!
I don't feel much of that kinda spark? he's more of the friend type... and don't get me wrong i kind've like him but not very much.

How do you stop dating a fella you just wish you were very much so liking but just can't?

I'm sure everyones been there at some point, I really need help with this... please and thanks :)

xxxxx

[WhiteBear]

eh what happend to my answer i posted??

i start again...

can i have your fella??

its nice to have a fella whoses always there for you when u need him etc....

serioulsy can i have your fella?? lol ... xx

[Ice.Maiden]

Whitebear's right. The naughty boys are more exciting at first, but the ones you want for keeps are the ones who care for and look after you. they're the reliable ones, who make good permanent partners hun, but if you really don't want that - tell the guy now. Just say that you're sorry, but it isn't working for you, and ask if you can stay friends. One day, you might kick yourself that you let such a decent guy get away though. x

[DebsyDoo]

You say you're "dating" him - but are not "with" him.

Don't quite know where you're at here babe -

If you're not in a sexual relationship with him, carry on being friends - jes make sure he knows the score.

However -
(if you are "gettin' it on" with him) but know he's not really your "type" & that the "spark" ain't there - whichever way you have to do it, let him down (gently) I been there girl, there ain't no easy way to do it, but you cannot go on living a lie.

It will be hard, but you (& he) will come out the the other side, better to break free now - than 5 years down the line.