Having sex at that time of the month

[marryme]

Does it hurt for a woman having sex during her period? How do you tell your partner that you are not freaked out by having sex during that time of the month? And how is it best to raise the top that you would like to have sex during that period aswell?

[HJT40]

Personally speaking, no it doesn't hurt. But some ladies may get embarrased by the "mess". We can be quite sensitive about that kind of thing, maybe thinking it would put someone off us.

If she says no, it is the time of the month, tell her that you don't mind if she doesn't. If she hates the idea then you will have to put her wishes first.

Some ladies are more sensitive in that area at that time of the month so it can be more pleasurable!

I guess each woman is different though, so I can only speak for myself.........

[missspeedy23]

No it doesn't hurt - for some women it even hightens the sensations!

Just come out and ask her but if she doesn't feel comfortable doing it then there's not much you can do to change her mind. Some women use it as an excuse!!!

[B00]

Whilst you may still want sex at that time of month, I can fully understand and appreciate why she might not want to.

Apart from anything else, you (oh ok, maybe just me then) just feel downright crap during that time, you're cranky, irritable and sex is usually the last thing you want at that time.

[4getmenot]

funny HJT40 I read it as if from a woman

[marryme]

How about having anal sex at that time? Does it interfere at all? Just would like some opinions as I do not want to upset her by asking?

[redcrx]

it doesnt matter a jot what any of us say, its her own personal choice.

Talk to her and ask her. If she doesnt want sex then thats the right answer

[joggerjayne]

As far as anal is concerned ... your pooper is designed for pooping. So don't even go there.

Just don't.

The End.

Finished.

As for sex generally, how about trying it in the bath, or shower.

Or how about a bj ? That usually seems to go down okay (so to speak).

[mrs.chappie]

Hey B00, so it's no different from your normal time for ya then?

{;O)

[4getmenot]

Yer but jogger your mouth is made for eating and breathing

[joggerjayne]

Touche, 4getmenot.

=0)

[mrs.chappie]

And don't forget talking 4get.

[tigerlily11]

Having sex at that time of the month....... is a messy buisness.

[Doc.Spock.1]

Can anyone join in this conversation.

I hate sex at that time of the month, my mrs is always nowty if a premium bond prize cheque has'nt arrived.

[4getmenot]

yes talking and we all know you shouldnt talk with your mouth full

[joggerjayne]

:-o

[4getmenot]

just like you shouldnt poop with your.....

[andy-hughes]

I personally am quite happy to have sex during my partner's period, but it is very much a matter of choice for the lady concerned.

As far as anal sex is concerned, next time you are 'in the moment' - try tickling her bottom gently and see how she reacts. If she stiffens and stops, you know it's a no-go area, and if she seems to like it, carry on and explore, and then you can 'pillow talk' your way round to the possibility.

Asking over the dinner table is NOT a good idea - time and place and all that ...

[mrs.chappie]

Oooh Andy, that's put me right off me chocolate pudding ...

[joggerjayne]

andy-h, that was a sensitive and considerate post.

But it doesn't alter the fact ...

... nobody shoves anything in my butt.

[Doc.Spock.1]

Is this the sensible andy h talking.