Okay, here goes.
I split up from my (fairly long term) boyfriend a few months ago. The night it happened, I got absolutely trolleyed, and had a �womanly experience� (great description, by the way) with a couple of my friends.
The next morning, I was ready to be embarrassed, but we just looked at each other mischievously and laughed.
It�s happened a few more times since. I must say, one of the friends is one of those girls who looks as if she was drawn by a man. Everybody who ever meets her, man or woman, finds her attractive.
Anyway, here�s the thing ...
You don�t have to be worried.
It doesn�t make you �different� ... I think most women would try it if they were in the right situation.
It�s a great experience.
But ... as you�re in a relationship, make sure that your b/f is genuinely comfortable with it. Men are notoriously �all mouth� but, when it comes to the crunch, they are a lot more inhibited than we are. Ask a man when he last gave himself a DIY and he will change the subject. Ask a girl, and she will list the last ten good ones.
So be really sure that he�s not just creating a private fantasy for himself.
And you may be better to keep it "all girl". If your b/f is involved, he is likely to concentrate on the other girl, and you might feel a bit awkward.
And if you go for it ... have fun !!!
Oh, one last thing ... how to "broach the subject" ? Go out with your girlfriends, get really p*ssed, flirt wildly, and see how they react.