ladies:which types of wealthy Men would U prefer?

[WhiteBear]

as above

1: a guy who went to university, gained at least a Degree, and from this it has lead him to a very Successful Career

or

2: a guy who left school at 16, has a Job, but come from a very Wealthy Family.

for me personally i would choose option 1.
how about the rest of you ladies?

and same for the Men... if u want to take part of this survey, just substitute guy to a girl/ lady/ woman (how ever you refer us) lol. just not 'bird'

[pinktwink]

neither money is not always the answer I would rather someone who treated me well respected me and someone i loved and could have fun with also that I would be happy to spend my life with

[WhiteBear]

that is True pink money isnt the answer, but ... what i mean is.. i like guys who are intelligent, confident, strong etc. who doesnt rely on others to keep him going.

[Ice.Maiden]

I agree with both of you, but gaining a degree doesn't automatically make a guy the sort you'd want to settle down with. It sometimes means that the guy's just very stunted, conversationally!

[sara3]

I wouldn't be attracted to someone because of their wealth, but I am inspired/impressed by people who have made something of themselves out of nothing.

I made next to nothing out of nothing ;o)

[Ice.Maiden]

Well, I've got the man and the tee shirt, so i'm not bothered any more, but as sara's just said, if someone's attracted by wealth alone, it's a very shallow way of looking at things.

Oh - and hi WB. Sorry hun. I was forgetting it was you who posted the thread. xx

[sara3]

hi Icey.. lucky you, getting the man!

I've dated some fabulously rich men but found them to be a bit detached from the real world...

[pastafreak]

I would like to be able to accept someone without taking any of that into consideration.

[Petal~flower]

someone who treats you nice, respects you..... plus a good sense of humour,

So easily pleased me! lol

[Ice.Maiden]

Exactly pasta. Best way at the end of the day. xx

Yes sara - you're right about that. x

[LoftyLottie]

Daniel Craig would do just fine regardless.............

[sara3]

Lofty.. how very shallow!

give me Gorgeous George any day =o)

[Ice.Maiden]

LOL!!!! He - although I wouldn't turn Fish away, as everyone knows...... : (

[Ice.Maiden]

No - Daniel Craig's fit enough - and George....yes, another one! : )

[sara3]

Fish the Marillion (sp?) man?

Sting is quite cute!

[LoftyLottie]

Uni Degree - Doesn't mean much at all
Successful Career - not important
Wealth - not important
Just someone who will always be loyal, honest a close friend and someone who loves me through thick and thin

and.....................

is a Daniel Craig clone ;o)

[Ice.Maiden]

YESSSSS!!!!! Fish - Derek - the man! Don't know what it is about him.

Awww...lottie - there are plenty of them out there...it's just finding them. A DC clone??? You mean there might be others like HIM???? Off to get my car keys.......

[LoftyLottie]

I have one already actually Icey, have done for 36 years!! (Not a DC clone though!!! ;o( )

[Ice.Maiden]

Bless you hun - but we can all THINK about other nice ones, can't we? i've been with mine for over 11.5 years. Love him, love, love him. x

[WhiteBear]

thank you for all ya opinions etc... :)

im not implyin in wealth... as such. i meant a guy whose intelligent, good with their hands ;-) , DIY, etc.

what i really meant is because i already have two degrees, i dont know if i could b with someone without any qualifications etc. or whose less intelligent than me and doesnt make an effort to look for a decent job. thats all... mayb im just bein old fashioned., too fussy.... and my standards r too high :P x

[sara3]

Whitebear, I have no formal qualifications and would consider myself a reasonable catch (not for you obviously!). I'm intelligent without being an academic shining star. I have a career and I think I'm a good example for my kids.

don't judge people by what they have, judge them for who they are and how they behave.