help!

[shameful]

hi there, im a young gay guy an iv so needed 2 ask this ? 4 ages just 2 embarrest 2 speak 2 sum1 bout it i guess here's why!
does any1 know if there are any operations u can have 2 stretch the anus. I need sum lovin like most pple out there and am gettin very frustrated with this my cheeks are turning red now lol! i can just bout get a finger up there and know 4 a fact that a dildo or wot eva! mre inportantly a penus! will not go in. dnt know if its due 2 piles or wot??? any suggestions would b much appreciated thanks 4 taking time 2 read this it's not the most pleasant thing 2 read i know!!!

[pjm007]

Try sticking some dynamite up there you sick *******!

[~max~]

Assuming this is genuine....
The anus is meant as an "exit only" kind of thing, so obviously, for anything larger than a suppository to get in, you'll have to adapt, somehow. Lubrication is the key, and I suppose, so is "will", as in...you have to be relaxed enough, and willing to go through the first painful stage...
I don't think it is ever easy, so try to relax and talk about it with your partner. At the end of the day, if you can't, you can't. There are other ways to please each other.

[jno]

yeah, lubrication, relaxation and practice. And not everyone does anal, not even every gay male. Good sense from max there.

[BagPussAA]

You could also try a butt plug which is tapered to is easier to use. If you try this in small amounts you should be able to stretch your arse out and make it easier to fit larger objects.

[sara3]

spotted!!!

[sqad617]

pjm007.......LOL LOL.
C�mon Abers can�t you spot a "wind up"....sara3 can. LOL

[naflharrison]

isnt it amazing the junk questions people will come up with! like any normal minded person would have the b**ls to ask that. and so many good answers aswell!! a good way to add a smile to my face after a long night at work!

[joggerjayne]

Good Morning, naflharrison.

Hopefully you're able to go and grab some well earned sleep if you've worked all night?

[naflharrison]

not today im afraid, got my gorgeous likkle boy here to keep up with. and my daughter coming home from school at lunch. such is life!