what u think to this?

[kitesurfer]

i have a girlfriend who is 27 years old. she is chinese. her male friend at work told me (as we chat like mates) that she is a virgin. Well she confirmed this to me and told me that she hadnt even kissed anybody before. anyway i had one date with her and then she came to stay with me and slept together. she didnt seem that experienced but once in the cinema she (i dont want to get rude here) 'went down on me' and it seemed like she had had experience...

Anyway I told her to go get checked out and she has Hepatitis B and it is active. She knew about this before and knew it was an STD. Luckily I am immunised so the risk is minumal. So she put me at risk knowingly.

But im confused weather to believe anything she tells me now. I mean can anyone give me advice on what to do?

[redcrx]

is this post just being done to upset her?

just as gravy did to mirela?

[sqad617]

Yes, she could have had it from birth. Good luck.

[kitesurfer]

china but she told me she hadnt even KISSED anyone

She lied to me about HBV so it just makes everything else a lot less unbelievable.

[sn�gged]

Haven't we done this before Gravy...

http://www.theanswerbank.co.uk/Body-and-Soul/R elationships-and-Dating/Question656049.html

[kitesurfer]

red she doesnt know about this site... she doesnt use it

[kitesurfer]

snagged but now I found out she is HBV. its different now

[sn�gged]

Not really... its still all about whether you trust her or not...

[kitesurfer]

ok but now after this I mean. would u trust her?

[sn�gged]

I don't have to. Its your problem...

[happyone2]

i truly wonder what the world is coming to with such stupid stupid people in it ...................

you are either a total prat or you are taking the ****..........

really .................. i am amazed at what drivel we deal with.........................

[londongoth]

when your a virgin and plan to stay that way (either religious reasons or cultural) you kinda get good at the other stuff lol were all human and no sex at 27 you have to be doing other stuff to cope right?

[kitesurfer]

happyone what is your problem? i am trying to get advice here.

[sn�gged]

kite... from your previous thread (link up there ^^) and this one, it sounds like - whatever anyone says to you - you've already made your mind up... that you don't trust her.

No one else is going to be able to change that. Its down to you.

[Velvetee]

Why are you so obsessed with Virgins? It seems to be your main topic of conversation here.

[kitesurfer]

but do u think i am justified not to trust her as she lied about hep B?

[cazzz1975]

I think you have too many trust issues, does it matter whether she is a virgin or not? has she questioned your past in such an analetical manner?

[Velvetee]

I agree Cazz. I think he'd benefit from counselling. All this obsession with whether a woman told him the truth about being a virgin or not is very strange and slightly unhinged.

Maybe she is a virgin, but contracted Hep B through sharing needles. Perhaps she was previously a chronic drug abuser?

[kitesurfer]

i hope not velvetee

why u think im unhinged?

[jen78]

NHS advice here you can read yourself about how you can acquire Hep B.

http://cks.library.nhs.uk/patient_information_ leaflet/hepatitis_b

So she could be telling the truth.

Maybe you have more of an issue with trust than she does with the truth, maybe not but if you don't trust her you're not going to get very far in a relationship.