sex

[Dr.Who]

ok now i have your attention i am seeing a girl for 3 months now and i have paid for everything. even 2 holidays. she works full time also and she hasnt paid for anything. i only just started caring about it now when i was thinking about all the hours i work. she works full time but i probably earn 4 times as much as her.

what do i do? i feel angry about it?

[sara3]

date women in your own financial bracket.

[Dr.Who]

they are all old and battered though lol. i am only 26

[lil123]

I've been in this situation more than a few times.
You need to address it as it is making you angry and that means it is not right.
Even though you earn more than her doesn't mean she can not contribute.
I would talk to her about it and don't let in continue as she seems happy just to let it carry on.
You work hard for your money as we all do x

[Velvetee]

If you earn 4 times more than her, what's the problem?

[torn-in-two]

Confront her, if she carries on being so selfish... leave!

[kira000]

She probably needs all the money she earns to pay for the treatment for HepB and the unborn baby of yours that you told us your girlfirend was having in various other threads.......

[Dr.Who]

lil I will confront her thanks. dont know how i will go about it though

[Velvetee]

Is that Kitesurfer again? He wants her to be generous with the truth, but he doesn't want to be generous with his cash.

Sounds like he wants it all on his terms.

[kira000]

She is probably aware that he is a wierdo who wants to train dogs to eat with their tails.... (see Animals section).

[Maypole]

No, dont feel angry about it because she didnt FORCE you to do anything. Feel angry with yourself if you really must.

Maybe no-one is worthy of you - the trophies are all to poor and the solvent ones all to 'old and battered' ?

[Maypole]

Oh, and why is your post entitled 'sex' ?

Maybe youre sick of paying for it lol

[QueenOfAmber]

You can come with me....
I'm not too bad money wise either.... ;)
Lol! Only joking!
She seems like she's just dating (ahem, or something else...) just for the cash. Go you separate ways with her - date someone with the same sort of cash as you then you will have a main part of the relationship already sorted out!

[joggerjayne]

Like Velvetee says ... if you earn so much more than her, why is it an issue?

Enjoy the fact that you are able to do it.

[QueenOfAmber]

nice point joggerjayne....

[Scouser1985]

If she works full time im guessing at minimum she earsn �1000 a month, if your on 4 times as much that means you are on minimum 4 grand a month ... why the hell are u bothered about paying for everything when you clearly can afford it? tight ass!