My Boyfriend

[UpTipp]

He's a lovely man and treats me really really well....but.!!!

He seems to think it's ok to grab my boobs and touch me in private places whenever it suits him.

At times I don't mind but sometimes I want to watch telly in peace.....

Would anyone else find this annoying???

[puddicat]

Defo!!!he probably thinks you like it not!!!

[B00]

Hell yes!

I'd be making Christmas tree decs out of his goolies if this was done to me!

Get him told girl, tell him there breasts and part of you, not radio tuning knobs to be fettled with whenever he wants to.

[beejay1124]

what do you mean by private places---the kitchen / the living room ?

[tonyav]

i can't see what the problem is !.

[sqad617]

"He's a lovely man and treats me really really well."

He's a lovely man.....so stop moaning.

Boobs and "private places" have a sexual connotation to men, that is why women wear clothes to emphasise and accentuate these "sexual objects"

You are a lucky woman

[B00]

Trust a man to have that attitude!

I think it's the phrase "Whenever it suits him" that would annoy most women. We're human beings and not just sexual objects, and as such we deserve some respect.

Whilst spontanious grabbing occasionaly is fantastic, on a regular basis it would seriously naff you off and like I said he'd be missing his most valuable assets if it was done to me often and because he "feels like it".

[UpTipp]

I could be reading and he'd start playing with my boobs....I ask him to stop and he just laughs.

I feel violated, I just don't know how to tell him that.

[UpTipp]

It's a problem because I could be reading the papers and he thinks it's ok to put his hand between my legs.

[B00]

You don't know how to tell him? How about...

"Gerroff me you sodding oaf"...it always worked for me, well apart from four years ago, that resulted in a Mini Boo...

[B00]

All joking aside UpTipp, if it's annoying you that much, tell him!

i genuinely believe this is down to respect, something he doesn't appear ot have for you. That alone would be a relationship breaker for me.

[UpTipp]

I do tell him get off. He still does it......

[sqad617]

"He's a lovely man and treats me really really wel"

"and he treats me really well"

Make up your mind.

[ummmm]

He treats her really well

but violates her.

[sqad617]

ummmmm......didn't know that you could violate someone and describe that as "treating her well" but what do I know, a mere man on a female dominated section R&D.

I will stop teasing you UpTipp, you have these choices:

1) Realise he is a "prat" and a "******" and cease thes euphamisms.
2) Tell him that his behaviour is unacceptable and see him drop you like a "hot potato"
3) Accept his "titivations" and watch it get worse.

Good luck.

[andy-hughes]

Try grabbing his goolies sudddenly - hard!

When he yelps, say innocently, but darling, you do that to me, and I'm supposed to like it ... do we have a problem?

Every time he does it, you do it - he'll soon get the message.

[Velvetee]

Maybe he feels treating you so well, gives him the right to grope you whenever, wherever. Does he do this sort of thing when you're out in public?

I think some men never grow out of their schoolboy mentality, where they are completely fixated and in awe of lady bits. I don't know what the solution is, if you ban his behaviour, he will be like a confused mutt and not know when to grab and when not.

Maybe you'll just have to put up with it. I'd suggest grabbing his bits unexpectedly, just to see how he likes it, but I'd guess he would like it.

[sqad617]

velvertee LOL LOL

"I think some men never grow out of their schoolboy mentality,"

You better believe it LOL LOL

[pastafreak]

We can't necessarily expect them to grow out of it....but we can sure as hell expect them to control it. If he does this regularly and often...like almost every day-then have a word AFTER you have grabbed him a few times. Best when he is absorbed in something on the telly that he really,really wanted to watch.

[sqad617]

Please....not when football is on TV.

[Prudentia]

by your boyfriend probably yes, but as you get to 40 you become more grateful for those little pleasures in life, think yourself lucky he obviously still fancies you!!!