men & sexual texts

[christina69]

my boyfriend had forwarded a couple funny/sexy texts to me...and i went through his phone...to see who sent them to make sure it wasn't a femal (i know...WRONG of me...) anyway...there are quite a few naked woman, and sexual acts and closeups of female body parts...and i do not like it... it's been driving me insane. I always want to have sex, and love trying new things... so i dont think it's because he's bored...but... i really dont understand why they're there...and why he saves them. It would be one thing to look at it...then delete it...but to save them... I'm extremely unhappy about him looking at other females like that. HOW do i approach him...?????

[redcrx]

you just have to tell him what youve said here.

obviously youll have to own up to having gone through his texts

[sqad617]

Ignore it....that is perfectly normal innocent male behaviour.

[DanAB]

its just something men do.

[B00]

you dont approach him about this at all.

For a start you were snooping on him. And secondly ALL men look at porn at one time or anotherand in one form of another (infact alot of women do too).

think yourself lucky they were pictures of grown up women and not anything dodgy and forget about it.

[christina69]

ok, so i will try to ignore it...
It just hurts me...that's all...
thank you for replying...

[sophie_1003]

as others have said, its just a man thing, it doesn't mean he likes you any less but thats no reason not to ask him for a bit of reassurance, just don't expect him to delete the pictures. however, if he knows the women he has pictures of it's a completely different matter!

[lil75]

It is something that men do...BUT they dont like it when its done to them, get urself a mag with naked men in and leave it somewhere for him to find, see how he reacts!

[sqad617]

lil75....LOL .....LOL.....!!

[Bbbananas]

men will be men..... ;-)

[ummmm]

My BF gave me his old phone when I broke mine. It's full of boobies and little clips of women taking their bra's off. I couldn't give two hoots.

BTW these are not women he knows just stuff that's been sent to him. He loves boobs. He likes mine best though...!!!!

[sqad617]

ummm....is that what he tells you? LOL LOL

[Bbbananas]

ummmm, that is so sweet x

[CrazyCathy]

You want to see some of the piccies my hubby has saved on his phone.......

The only time I got flustered was when I was looking for a photo on his phone of my two to show his mum who was sitting next to me and I thought I hope she didn't see that....

Just a boy/man thing abit like I collect shoes and handbags

[cazzz1975]

its a man thing christine, try not to take it personally, maybe you should put some hunky men on your phone or on your computer?

[ummmm]

Mine are the only ones he gets to touch sqad so he will obviously prefer mine.....!!!

He's way too lazy to try and touch anyone else's. That would mean moving off the sofa....lol.

[christina69]

Again, thank you...I certainly appreciate all the helpful comments... and I'm thankful especially for the men that responded. I was hoping I'd get honest answers. I was so afraid I was going to hear... something along the lines...if he does that...he's probably fckn around on you too....
so again, thank you...
and to the female who said...that they wouldn't like it if we did it...you're absolutely correct...
thank you again... I appreciate everyone's honesty and time

[SJ2209]

Hi Christina
It is a man thing.........but do you not use a vibrator on your own?...and when you do who do you think about? probably not you other half !

[christina69]

actually... no i dont use one...