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I have known this guy for about 7 months we went to college together and were always friends in school yet never hung out outside of class. Yet we went out supposly as friends in feb when I got him he gave me a valentines day gift and took me to a movie and paid...we went back to his house to chill after and some stuff happened...then last week we went out again to the movies and dinner and went back to his place didn't think it was gonna happen but it happened again( u know what I mean) and he was just totally connecting with me like he really cares( he always makes the 1st move) he will txt me once in a while he'll check on me the thing that really confuses me is that he has a girlfriend...ya Why is he doing this? Do u think he has feelings for me? Why won't he leave her he is already cheating..I just need advice please please..
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he is taking advantage of you, he probably knows that you want more from him so he is in control, of when he sees you and what you do when you're together. the reasons for people staying together are very personal and cant be analysed properly by people outside of the relationship. take control and refuse to see him until he's made up his mind, you or his girlfriend, if he wants to be with you he'll leave his girlfriend and start a relationship properly with you, if he doesn't then you deserve someone who is just about you.
I don't think anyone here is suggesting for one minute that you are the one sleeping around, in fact, you -like his girlfriend are the innocent victims, in a sense.
I suppose, based on morals you should have told him to end his relationship if he intends to make a go of it with you before 'anything' happend. But life's not like that.
He's basically got you for a bit of fun - anything he says and does may come across as a strong emotioinal connection but the reality is, he'll say anything to keep you interested and while you're emotions are running high, you'll believe him.
This is going to sound realy harsh but, you might not be the only one he's connecting with behind his girlfriend's back.
Be careful.
I suppose, based on morals you should have told him to end his relationship if he intends to make a go of it with you before 'anything' happend. But life's not like that.
He's basically got you for a bit of fun - anything he says and does may come across as a strong emotioinal connection but the reality is, he'll say anything to keep you interested and while you're emotions are running high, you'll believe him.
This is going to sound realy harsh but, you might not be the only one he's connecting with behind his girlfriend's back.
Be careful.
I feel bad for her bc why be in a relationship when u cheat? what's the point I could never ever do that I just do not get it if u wannna sleep with girls be single right? I think she shoudl know bc all he is doing is using her using me and she's gonna be hurt the most in the end bc she has no idea...
You want him to be caught so you can have him? Is that what you mean. If it makes you so mad that a guy can behave like that and treat someone like that why do you want him? I'm sure you deserve better. If he's cheated once I am sure the chances are he will do it again if he keeps "getting away with it". He could do the same to you. You will get so hurt.
But you are IN a relationship with a cheat, lizwolf. He cheats on you with his girlfriend, and vice versa. It's probably not your fault that you've been drawn into his web, but knowing that he has a gf, you're no better than he is. Morals aside, if he liked you a great deal, then he wouldn't stay with the girlfriend - he'd be with you. It's up to you hun, but I think you'd be better off without him and finding yourself someone who cares more about you. I'm sure you deserve better.
