should i call him

[tubachub]

I was talking to this guy for a while like for 6 months.I started to have feelings towards him..He also started to give me mixed signals which even got me more mad.He would call me at 2:30 am just to say goodnight. Then the next day he wouldnt call me. or if i called him he would`nt pick up his cell phone
About 3 week ago I erased him off my myspace and I also changed my cell phone number so that way he would never contact me because I thought that it would be best just to forget about him. But lately I've been thinking that I made a mistake.he is very shy

Every little thing reminds me of him, his name is everywhere. I even dream about him every night. and I think that he really did care about me.I dont know what to do.Should I contact him?or should I just forget about him? His birthday is coming up and I was thinking about calling him or messaging him to show him that I care about him
.I really don't know what to do he has been trying to contact me but i`ve ignored him which i now regret because i felt very hurt as i thought he wasn`t serious about me but now i`ve heard he does really like me, but what if he sees my number and doesn`t pick up his cell phone,as he might be to nervous to speak to me.Please give me your advice. Thank you

[pinktwink]

go for it message him to see if he wants to go for a birthday drink and see where it goes, Tell him how you have been feeling so he will understand why you blocked him

[Ice.Maiden]

Don't you have his address or em addy? Write to him, and say you want to get to know him better - or text with the same message.
If you've only been "talking" for 6 months, you can't really expect the guy to be "serious" about you. Friendship's the best way to start a proper relationship, so take the bull by the horns!

[ummmm]

email him. It's his birthday so it gives you a reason to ask what he's up to etc. Tell him to give you a ring if he's going out and you'll meet up with him for a beer for a B'ay drink.

Are you in America?

[tubachub]

thanks for the advice guys i shall text him then he has the opportunity to phone me oR txt back,and i wont put him on the spot and make him nervous DO YOU THINK IT IS TO LATE TO TEXT HIM NOW?

ummmm..... i`m not in America but i am from there

[tubachub]

o.k i`ve texted him i kept it very brief, i didn`t want to look like a bunny boiler by explaining in great detail in the first text, then when he returns the text i can explain to him the reasons for my silence.but knowing what a perfectionist he is the txt wont be good enough.or i haven`t tried hard enough.

[Ice.Maiden]

Never let him undermine you hun. Just speak from the heart, and be your own person. x

[tubachub]

thanks ice. no i wont i`ll keep you all up dated.
ta for your advice..x

[Ice.Maiden]

Just do what makes you happy. Night hun. x

[tubachub]

thanks i`ve read all the posts and taken on board your advice,i`m probably "sad" for thinking about a relationship with him as i dont expect an answer to my text,so i cant report there has been a "happy ending" maybe i`ll just go back to playing tennis to take my mind off him.i feel like i`ve been tared and feathered "as you do" for contacting him,
i think he is testing me to the limit to see how far i will go for him.
what to do now?.

[tubachub]

hi goodbyegirl! thanks for asking
yes i texted him but haven`t had a reply,which i think is very rude of him. he could of aleast texted back even to say hello and give me an answer even to say no anything its better then silence.why do people thinks its o`k just to ignore someone.that has taken the time to message them even through my message was short,and asking him to reply so as we could talk.ohh well!!

[caththecrazy]

Ahh TC maybe he was busy and hasn't replied because he wants to be able to talk with you.

I know sometimes I've got texts and waited til the next day so I can ring and talk about whatever it is at length.

Keep your chin up.

[caththecrazy]

Maybe GBG

But men don't always think.....

Can you tell if a) message has been delivered and b) he has read it?

His battery could be flat anything or he could just be VERY RUDE

[tubachub]

i`m not going to make any excuses for him even if he was busy he could have replied.i do have two mobiles numbers for him.but only used one ,but i`m not going to bother ringing the other number lots of guys dont like texting but previously when i texted him,he would call me back. i doubt very much if he has run out of credit!his on contract
,Can you tell if a) message has been delivered and b) he has read it?{quote}
yes i can but i haven`t looked ,i`m going to leave him alone now.because i really need to get a life.instead of waiting around for him.thanks again for your advice,xx

[tubachub]

i have.moved on
i havent seen him for so long i`ve forgotton what he looks like.so really im just lusting after a fantasy..

[caththecrazy]

I read this as though you had text him and he hadn't replied in 8 hours sometimes I have my phone switched off