Why is he giving mixd messages?

[selinamc]

got with a guy ive likd for ages at mine the other night but it almost changd his mind bout getin it on as i made a joke saying he was a hypocrite for not taling his shirt off as i had mine off lol. he got really upset and said this is wrong, even though it was meant to be a bit of fun he tried to turn it round and say he only came round cuz he hadnt seen me in ages which was blatanly not true.
he hasnt been able to have a serious relationship since his ex 2 years ago because of bein hurt which i think relates back to her but dont no the history there.

[Daniela36]

Are you a male too? Only you said you was wearing a shirt too. If he is not gay (clue also, you said his ex was a she), then maybe you have the wrong idea about him.

Don't really understand your question. You will have to give more details. (with added vowels)

[Huderon]

ummm ... If he took your shirt off, you could have returned the favour and taken his off !

Of course it could just be that he isn't ready to get it on with you, or that he's just too nervous to take that kind of joke

[HJT40]

really weird question considering you have only just asked about sending texts to your boyfriend........ Now you have just got with a guy the other night.

Each to their own!

[selinamc]

im a girl by the way!

[andy-hughes]

He may have been having second thoughts about the situation, and your humerous renmark just caught him at the wrong moment, and underlined his anxiety.

When the time comes again - and you will know how keen he is by whether or not it does - you need to be more gentle, and let him take the pace with regard to the clothing side of things. Let him know you are interested, but don't rush him, and at thimes like this, silence really is golden!