Dirty talk when having sex

[curvybird]

Please believe me when i say i ask this i am not looking for unnecessary smut, i just really need to know. Is it a turn on for men or not, I love to do it,but with my new man i darent,for fear of scaring him off. Help please x

[20SilkCut]

Why do you think it would scare him off curvybird?

[Prudentia]

go with the flow, if u like it where is the problem?

[mrs.chappie]

Why not just ask him how he feels about it?

[ChuckFickens]

it's hardly the most extreme thing you could do in bed so I doubt he will run away, besides he will probably be a little preoccupied :)

[20SilkCut]

As Mrs Chappie says, ask him....communication is key in healthy relationships...if you cant talk to him about sex...well ...there is not much chance of you both delevoping this relationship.

[pastafreak]

You till haven't learnt to be safe and put you Q's in Body & Soul.......

As for your question....if he is scared off......then maybe he wasn't right to start with....

[ReallyLegend]

after reading some of your previous postings


dirty talk could be the least of your worries


for sure lol

[Barmaid]

I reckon Mrs C hit the nail on the head. Ask him if it turns him on. If he says "no" keep it shut. If he says "yes" ask him what type of talk.

[jno]

depends on the man - the answer will frequently be Yes, but not always. You can ask; or you can just try it out (not too extreme, at least at first) and see how he responds.

[Ice.Maiden]

Ask him......to talk dirty to YOU...and if he's appalled by the idea - forget it!

[Sam.Spade]

never heard of a man objecting to a bit of dirty talk in bed, if he objects to it, get rid as he can not be normal.

[ReallyLegend]

yet another uneductaed inebriated piece of english trailer trash scum

sam shady why are you hiding ?�?�?�

[Ice.Maiden]

So is having a foul mouth normal then sam?

[Lore]

Why don't you test the water a little, say the odd couple of lines ( for want of a better word) and see how he reacts.

[ReallyLegend]

it is for sam icey.

he may tell us a funny story about green wine gums if were lucky lol

[pastafreak]

It is a good thing we AREN'T all the same......it would make for even less excitement in this life. Different things work for diferent people....and couples

[Ice.Maiden]

I agree pasta, and if someone spoke like that all the time with me, I'd be as bored as hell.
I'm not saying it's wrong, but it's like the "taboo naughty words" being the main turn on - when it shoud be what you're doing that gets the desired effect!

[Lorzy Lor]

I agree with Lore. test the waters.

I think he'll be just fine with it.....

:)

[mrs.chappie]

If you're close enough to be getting jiggy with him, surely you are close enough to talk about what gets you going?