Is attratcion two way thing or is it just me kidding my self?

[postage]

Let see I fancy some one like hell and have done for a while. LOL
They fancied me too.
We had a fling ( you know what I mean)
Trouble is its been a while and I still fancy them like hell but Don't think it's the same with them
Although we exchange looks and the odd spark flairs up but nothing get said and either party
Wont come forward what do you think

[craft1948]

hello postage......me and Brad Pitt have a similar relationship......

[andy-hughes]

One of you has to make a move, or you will never know.

Suggest a coffee / lunch / drink after work. If you get no joy, you know it's not going to happen. What have you got to lose?

[China Doll]

You're kidding yourself. I had a casual fling with someone I work, I still think he's attractive and I know he thinks the same, we still chat to each other if we see each other and I guess there's a still the old spark with us too but it's nothing to do with fancying each other. Just a mutual respect for what we once were I guess.

[postage]

Zacsmaster listen mate i have a bad habbit i always use capital letter when I should'nt no schooling mate.
any way gettingback to my point yeh its called self respect
incase the other party thinks I am a diccck heead

[postage]

Fri 21/08/09
11:49 hello postage......me and Brad Pitt have a similar relationship......
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you mean like ships in the dark oppppppppppps nite

[B00]

Why would the other person think badly of you if you suggested a coffee?

I'm with Andy, life's too short for what ifs...go for it.

[postage]

andy-hughes
Fri 21/08/09
11:50 One of you has to make a move, or you will never know.

Suggest a coffee / lunch / drink after work. If you get no joy, you know it's not going to happen. What have you got to lose?
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no i wont suggest that last time i did they said oh ok my car or yours then laughed i thought hmmmmmmmmm
thats bit off the mark

[another-view]

I guess you're a female?

The guy has had his fun and has moved on.

[postage]

B00 cuz we already had the coffee and the cream so to ask for coffee again would be like ................................lol

[postage]

thats right laugh at me when i am at my lowest point why dont you? you be sorry when i am gone and then you be waiting for the postage ......

[andy-hughes]

zacmaster - I can't see the loss of self-respect in being turned down for a drink invitation. Where's the harm - it's a social activity, and perfect for gauging any interest - or lack of it, from the other side.

postbag - if you got a 'my car or yours' response, you should be able to read the sings, and see if he/she (you don't advise your gender, or the other person) is kidding, or giving you signals.

[postage]

innit it just.

[cazzz1975]

sad as it is to say but I think another-view has nailed it

"The guy has had his fun and has moved on"

maybe he liked the chase, now you are caught he has lost interest, I would move on..