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How to get the guy who flirts with everyone?
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I really like this guy who flirts with everyone.. he always has quite a few girls trying it on with him, but he never actually does anything with them at parties and stuff.. i will be seeing him at a party this friday, how should i act? I really really like him
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You charmer, snags
Anyway i digress,
Hellmyname,
If you really like him, see how you get on at the party on Friday.....if he's interested in you, you'll know, and if he's not, he'll just keep on flirting, BUT if you do go out with him and he still flirts outrageously....DUMP HIM!!!, as there's flirting and then there's FLIRTING!!.................btw..my book on safe flirting will be out in the shops before Christmas!
Anyway i digress,
Hellmyname,
If you really like him, see how you get on at the party on Friday.....if he's interested in you, you'll know, and if he's not, he'll just keep on flirting, BUT if you do go out with him and he still flirts outrageously....DUMP HIM!!!, as there's flirting and then there's FLIRTING!!.................btw..my book on safe flirting will be out in the shops before Christmas!
I've always found being slightly insulting in a cheeky/funny way tends to get more attention. If all the other girls are flirting and desperate for him, they're not much of a challenge are they? Play it cool, chat but act like you're not really that interested in him and have a couple of witty put downs up your sleeve. If he's at all interested in you then he'll be desperate to make you like him back. Good luck!
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Now, I don't know a thing about this kind of thing at all - I'm a bit of an idiot when it comes to this, but here's my twopenneth anyhow/what I might try doing if I was in your situation. I have no guarantee it's the right thing to do whatsoever, it's just probably what I'd do.
Basically, I think it depends on how well you know this guy. If you don't know him all that well, you could from his perspective be just another girl trying to flirt with him if you try that approach. By the sound of what you're saying, he basically just flirts back when girls flirt with him - so you never know, it could be refreshing for him not to have to put it up like that for someone. If you get to know him a bit more, it might give you some clues as to how to progress.
If you know him reasonable well - I'd just try and build on whatever you've allready got. So if you're good friends, spend time with him and try and show him you care etc.
As an aside (and I have tried this - it didn't quite work in my case...) if you think it'd be effective, it could be worth just taking him aside and just telling him directly that you like him. That way he doesn't have to flirt/pussyfoot around the issue, he's just got the fact right there in front of him. On the other hand, though, I'd say this approach is normally worth trying only with people you're sure you can trust. It's also very, very difficult to get the courage up to do it and if the person can take it or leave it you need to be prepared for the possibility they might leave it. It's just a thought though.
Basically, I think it depends on how well you know this guy. If you don't know him all that well, you could from his perspective be just another girl trying to flirt with him if you try that approach. By the sound of what you're saying, he basically just flirts back when girls flirt with him - so you never know, it could be refreshing for him not to have to put it up like that for someone. If you get to know him a bit more, it might give you some clues as to how to progress.
If you know him reasonable well - I'd just try and build on whatever you've allready got. So if you're good friends, spend time with him and try and show him you care etc.
As an aside (and I have tried this - it didn't quite work in my case...) if you think it'd be effective, it could be worth just taking him aside and just telling him directly that you like him. That way he doesn't have to flirt/pussyfoot around the issue, he's just got the fact right there in front of him. On the other hand, though, I'd say this approach is normally worth trying only with people you're sure you can trust. It's also very, very difficult to get the courage up to do it and if the person can take it or leave it you need to be prepared for the possibility they might leave it. It's just a thought though.
He probably loves the company of women and likes to talk and make them laugh. Maybe he is not "flirting" (as nothing happens as you say) but just wants to joke with them and make sure they are both having a good time.
Go up to him and say hello. Check if he is single by asking how was his weekend (or if coming up to one) how will his weekend be. Don't drink too much!
Go up to him and say hello. Check if he is single by asking how was his weekend (or if coming up to one) how will his weekend be. Don't drink too much!
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