Straight, not gay.

[Reddix]

Ok, here is the situation...I'm 21 and during the past years I've been dating like a normal guy (I'm straight). But from months ago, I've been finding men extremely hot (only in a physical way). Yesterday, I had my first sex encounter with a guy but I realised it was just for his nice body. I don't feel anything for guys, I do love girls. Why do you think is this happening?...Any suggestion of how can I quit looking men that way?. Thanks.

[ummmm]

Maybe you're bi?

[Mr Veritas]

I agree with ummmm,
You might be bi~sexual,that is you are attracted to both mne and women.
It's not a thing to get wound up about.
I would say(if you can) try and find a nice sensitive bisexual or gay guy and give it a whirl, and see how you feel.
If you don't you will only get screwed up(sorry about the pun!LOL).

[jacksprat16]

no such thing as bi guys there all gay but such cowards not to come out
the crusin areas are full of married guys getting of with other guys
poor little wifey completely unaware the "husbands" are deceiving them
i know many "bi guys" ive serviced shall we say, some are good kissers too

[MarkRae]

And in English...?

[ELVIS68]

"Ok, here is the situation...I'm 21 and during the past years I've been dating like a normal guy (I'm straight)"

How can you be dating a normal guy if you`re straight?

It`s Abnormal

[Kromovaracun]

"no such thing as bi guys there all gay but such cowards not to come out "

You're an idiot. You also sound rather biphobic, which considering you also imply that you're gay (no other sexualities exist, after all...) is astounding. You are a fool. How you can post such drivel on a thread where someone's genuinely seeking some advice in such an issue is beyond me. I sincerely hope the question author doesn't listen to you.

Elvis: I think he means he's been dating 'like' a normal guy - ergo he's been dating girls, but has just recently started finding men attractive.

[jacksprat16]

Kromovaracun ...... years of experience my dear
chill out the guys gays go with it
staying with the women will bring years of torment
not easy being gay either but at least you know where you stand

[Kromovaracun]

But you've extended the fact that closeted straight men exist to conclude that bisexual men do not exist. I've known several genuine bisexuals who haven't just suffered straight people expecting them to be straight, but also sections of the gay community insisting that they're just gay when they're not. For some this causes years of emotional stress and hardship. You have absolutely no right to tell someone what they are or aren't.

Most bisexuals 'know where they stand' pretty well - once they've gotten past the fact that parts of the straight and (to our shame) gay communities start placing pressure on them to pigeon-hole themselves.

[Davethedog]

You gotta go with it. You can't repress what you are. It will work out one way or another.

BUT BE SAFE

[mandimoo]

aw gee, you're young... experiment, have fun, be nice to people, you are still looking for yourself.