Hi
I am 45 and living with a woman who is 14 years older than me.....
I always have had much younger girlfriends, so at first it was a surprise to me, now 3 years on and very happy it is completely immaterial the age gap. But i suppose i see her for who she is, rather than what she looks like etc
No mother issues here, she is just a great woman and we have a lot in common, and anyone sensible enough would realise that age does not matter as long as you both want to be together for the right reasons...