how can i got my boyfriend to be more phyical

[5924]

by physical i mean like kissing and cuddling not like sexuall thigns

we are both too nervous to mqke a move and i dont wantto scare him off

[stonekicker]

just be natural, sweetie. think of the physical contact you get with your bff. it's supposed to be like that with snogging, cuddling, hand holding and all the extra bits that come later. just be safe and get yourself the pill and use condoms when that bridge is crossed...just to be sure. he sounds like a decent lad if he is keeping his hands to himself so far - perhaps you need to give him some 'permission' if you like to get more intimate. its a sign he is sensitive, cares about your feelings and is thinking with his brain rather than you know what. think it's sweet, respectful and he is a gentleman. there aren't many of those left, so he sounds like a keeper. btw - just because you are a girl doesn't mean you can't say what you think or want in a relationship. take it at your own paces - both of you. and talk about it! he probably feels the same way you do...x

[Mamyalynne]

Well I presume he`s not up to anything tonight as he`s not at all well is he SK?

[bobjugs12]

Albags, who's Emily x?

[Prudie]

Is this your first boyfriend/his first girlfriend?

[Prudie]

Bobjugs surely you were involved in Emilyx thread, you know pregnant, 17 etc

[askyourgran]

Wait for me Bobj you can give me a lift, I;ve got de ja vu coming on

[5924]

yeah it's a first for both of us, he does seem like a real gentleman i've known him since i've been three and what does SK mean im slightly confused sorry lol. it's probally something really obvious too 0.0

[ummmm]

StoneKicker.

Is he ok holding hands and stuff?

[4getmenot]

now now lets all give 5924 the benefit of the doubt. 5924 if you want to hold his hand, cuddle etc do it, someones got to make the first move, he's probably thinking the same thing anyway and he's obviously just too shy. If you scare him off then it jst wasnt meant to be and move on.

[stonekicker]

more worry = less time to think about being close. it comes naturally in a good relationship. i'm still with the boyfriend i had at 16 - i'm now 34 and been married for 17 years. anything is possible; enjoy yourself; be careful; and seek out new experiences. is what life is all about...x

[ummmm]

Lol Doc xx

[5924]

@stonekicker
in your last comment you just described him there he is a real gentleman and if you stay stop he would and would probally run like 20 foot away just to give you comfort

[askyourgran]

See you've been there before SK.

[5924]

how do i know if he wants the same thing too

[snags]

Alternatively... a nice cup of tea and a couple of pages of the Bible...

[bobjugs12]

Oh yeah Emily-X. I'm gutted she went. She was awesome.

[4getmenot]

so you're new here hey? what brought you to this site?

[5924]

i was using yahoo answers but i got no sence out of it so i though to come here i have found it useful and i actually got some answers decent ones YAY

[lardhelmet]

Didn't Emily X get the elbow cos people started talking about her boyfriend's lack of performance on a Sunday?