swinging

[curiositykills]

has anyone on here ever tried this? is it as good as it sounds or is it the old 'dirty fat old men' trying it on with 'dirtier fatter old women' and not the glamorous porn fest it sounds?

im getting more and more sexually curious as the years pass and feel like im not exploring enough and making the most of situations.

ive heard of a couple of swinging clubs in the north but I am so scared of setting foot in one I dont think I will get over the fear!!!

[mccfluff]

lol JJ, i don;t think bathroom belts would do it for me, i have a selection of silk scarves must nicer!

[joggerjayne]

Oh, fluffy ...

I have the jolly purple leather handcuffs, and all that ...

... but towelling cords are just easier ... (and washable!)

=0/

[mccfluff]

but not sexy at all!, i'm not sure purple leather handcuffs would do it either....

[joggerjayne]

Fluffy ...

These are them. They are LOVELY ... and fur lined ... !!

http://tickledonline....ondage&offset=5&ID=76

[joggerjayne]

Oooh ... they only have black or red in stock.

=0(

Mine are the colour in the picture.

I got them from the Tickled shop, which is in the town here.

[Barmaid]

forty five quid?!!!! I'm with Fluffy and the silk scarves.

[mccfluff]

mmm not for me

[snags]

''We are talking sensual, fulfilling, understanding and erotic sex''

Sqad, you smooth talking g1t:

http://i151.photobuck.../snagged_01/Burns.png

[joggerjayne]

barmaid ... they are worth it ...

They're really well made ... not like the tacky things that Ann Summers sell.

[Sqad]

barmaid......of course you feel the way NOW a brand new relationship.

<<He has expressed as much as far as I am concerned with another woman or man. <<

What do you think he would say?......."up for 3-some darling?"

Is it possible that when or if your relationship starts to feel a bit "stale" might it be that either of you might feel differently?

[ummmm]

Relationships shouldn't go stale..

[mccfluff]

its not that, they just don't appeal for some reason, i love the feel of scarves

[Bbbananas]

Why do you assume that all men are over-sexed pervs who would jump at the chance of a 3-some, swinging, kinky, voyeurism, extra-marital, emotion-free sex sqad? Is it really all men think about or care about? Is it really all they want a woman and a relationship for?
I don't actuallly believe that for a minute. Not once in their 40's, 50's, 60's etc. You, maybe ;-)

[mccfluff]

darnit an interesting conversation and i have to go to a health and safety meeting :-( have fun folks x

[ummmm]

Salla....Martin has absolutely no interest in sex with other people and can't stand the thought of me with a woman for his titillation.....to him it's cheating.

[Sqad]

salla not ALL men do.........I have never spoken to "all men"

My comments are from a long life of human experiences and yes, you can call it perversion.
In my book, if two people agree to a certain action, then it is not perversion, unacceptable to many perhaps, but not perversion.

Another definition is perversion is an act that the majority would not entertain, but how do you know how many would or how many wouldn´t? In the UK it is not to be seen as "normal" or "decent " to be open about their sexual activities, so it is unlikely that we will ever know what is normal and what is not.

[ummmm]

I'm glad we are pretty open then....

I do believe we have progressed though Sqad....women don't just lie back and think of England anymore.

[Barmaid]

I have no idea how either of us may feel in the future. However, we do discuss sex in considerable detail and he knows how open minded I am (I've actually been the one to open his mind!). I just don't think he would be interested - it's really not his thing. I now know exactly which buttons to press ;). As for me, it is not something I ever had a burning desire to do and can't see that changing. Even though I might have thought about it, for me it would have been something that didn't involve the feelings and emotions that go hand in hand with a relationship. It would simply have been carnal pleasure and lust; not a tender and erotic act of love.

We shall see!

[Sqad]

Barmaid.......quite.

<<<It would simply have been carnal pleasure and lust; not a tender and erotic act of love. <<<

Don´t underestimate the power of "carnal pleasure and lust" to men.

[Barmaid]

I don't underestimate that. Nor should men underestimate women!!

If that is what he fancies in the future, then he knows he can discuss it with me and then we would make a decision together. Knowing what I know about him though, that is not where he would get his carnal kick!!!