My lady will not snog with me.

[Ian1]

I've been going out with this lady I met on a dating site. We've been going out for 4 months and really getting on well, even planning to marry one day.

However she will not snog with me, saying she can't stand tongues touching.

Surely, anyone could snog the person they are in love with?

This is one of her many foibles, she will not share a bottle of water.

This is doing my head in.

[Prudie]

Not wanting to kiss with tongues or share a bottle of water suggests she might have some OCD tendencies - anything else like this she won't do? Is she over-picky about cleanliness?

[askyourgran]

I don't think she's serious about you Ian. If she's fussy about kissing and sharing bottles etc, it will be a stretch of the imagination if she will share anything else with you. Keep your options open, four months isn't very long, and it's a bit soon to think of marriage. There could someone else out there who is much warmer and happy to share intimaces with you.

[Booldawg]

give it a few years and she wont be putting out either.

[juandelacruz]

Try a new dating site - you've drawn the short straw.