My Jelous friends Is Makeing My Life A Missory!

[GleekyBoo]

I have a friend called Mary and we've been friends 9 years. But this year she's been extremely annoying!! She is jelous of my best friend Kate. She follows her around and writes to her and hardly ever writes to me anymore. I don't like Mary any more and i want to end our friendship once and for all. Kate is an extremely great friend but she likes Mary even though she tells me she doesn't. I know Mary wants me out of the way so she can be friends with Kate alone.
So I want to end it, but i don't know if i should. I have a part time job with Mary and her Mum is my boss. I hate the job too because she is there but the money is good. Also i'm afraid of looseing Kate. She said she'll always be on my side no matter what way this goes but i don't want to put her in that position were she has to choose between friends. She wants us to try and leave Mary and just pretend she doesn't exsist but to be honest it's easier said than done.
Most people say i should talk to May about but i just can't. She is the loud sort who would talk about it behind my back and only embarass me. It's been going on for a year now and i'm so depressed and upset. I have 3 more years left at school before i leave for college so i can't just let it go on. What should i do?

[GleekyBoo]

haha thats quite funny :-)
the only thing is that me and Kate never b1tch about eachother..its just Mary who has it in for me :| i'm not the type to b1tch about people and i wouldnt do it to her but i think i might just feck of without Mary and if Kate wants to come then she can but i'm not going to waste my time with Mary anymore. She's makeing my days at school hell and I want to enjoy the time I have left as a teenager!

[GleekyBoo]

thank you :-)
i love this website now lol

[_sophie_]

I think if you really don't want to be friends with Mary then don't be. Why should you go through all that if you don't even like her? But have you ever though that Mary might be following Kate etc to be friendly with you again? You have been friends for 9 years and maybe since you've made friends with Kate, Mary has got a bit jelous and feels left out?
If you are going to leave her though, I would do it nicely. You've been friends for so long and although you may hate her right now, in the long run you might miss her and want to speak to her again. Don't gang up on her in a nasty way.
Also just to add... over time this will simmer down :) x

[lellibet]

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