I NEED HELP? :|

[TeenageDreams]

Well you may have heard about my previous post. I'm haveing trouble with a certain "friend" called Mary that won't stop following my best friend, Kate around. She gets extremely jelous and after talking to Kate i realised that we are both finding it annoying and we aren't really likeing who she has become. Honestly she is a very cheeky person and doesn't bond with other people. For along time now I feel like she's pushing me out so she can "take" my best friend. But now the problem has gotten worse. For a year now Kate has been going to a religous youth group and she always said she'd be happy if i joined so we made plans for that to happen. However, this may sound bad but we don't want Mary to join. It's not like we are excludeing her it's just that Kate has made friends their and Mary isn't the type to bond well with others who are friendly to Kate; like i said she gets jelous. Mary would probably make fun of the other girls and makeing them hate us. We don't see how i'd be able to join the club without her knowing as her younger sister is joining (who isn't as bad as Mary) Any suggestions for us would be much appreciated :)

[redcrx]

sounds a bit petty to me. |You complain that this Mary isnt always nice to you and now you want to join a club and yet stop her joining?

i think you all need your heads banging together

[TeenageDreams]

I don't want her joining cause she's a bully. I want to join a club were i can meet knew people and i can't do this when I don't want to see as much of her anymore (like the other people suggested on my other post)

[redcrx]

but what you are doing is also bullying. Trying to stop her from joining a club too just because you dont want her there

[NazNomad]

You don't want someone called Mary to join a religious group?

<snigger> sorry.

Either all get along, or have nothing to do with each other.

[Lou_Lou26]

Maybe you just need to trust the other people at the group not to tar you with the same brush as Mary. I had a friend like that once - most people were fine with me even though they didnt like her.

[TeenageDreams]

Well then if i'm a bully then I don't know what you would call her. This club is religous too and she doesn't even believe in any religon?? She complains about the people there all the time but ones she knows i'm going she will want to go, only because she doesn't want me spending time with Kate. I'm sorry but if you don't have any suggestions then i think you should stop commenting please :(

[TeenageDreams]

thanks guys :)

[redcrx]

i dont see what answers you are looking for. You say her sister goes, so she would always know if you joined. Why would she even want to bother joining a religious group if she isnt religious.

all you are doing is continuing this problem. Get on with your life, ignore her. But dont go causing yourself more problems by tryin to get back at her.

Did you speak to an adult about the bullying?

[TeenageDreams]

Her little sister is joining because she has a friend there too :/ and thanks 2short planks :) I'm really trying but with her joining the club i don't know how else too ? :\

[lellibet]

geekyboo

[NazNomad]

... and we thought Mary was quite contrary, lol :-)

[anneasquith]

geekyboo ?

[NazNomad]

TeenageDreams and geekyboo have, by an amazing coincidence, posted identical questions.

[anneasquith]

naz..there was an interesting question from ? lillibet yesterday.

[lellibet]

I'll let you know how I get on tomorrow.