I fancy my best friends boyfriend!!! help!!!

[selinamc]

Im really good friends with the guy and my best friend knows I like him but she doesnt mind if i was to go out with him. But she told me she slept with him recently and it was a mistake, she has a new boyfriend. The guy is single and seems to be good friends with his exs ive met so i think we could still be friends if it doesnt work out but im feeling really akward about talking to him about it as ive known him for so long and afraid hed reject the idea even tough we flirt.

[4getmenot]

sorry i got a bit lost with this one

[craft1948]

Looking at your previous posts I don't think I can be of any help.....

[Jemisa]

Leave him alone, - Soiled goods.

jem

[selinamc]

just o make it clear theres nothing going on betwen him and his ex, he talks to me about girls he likes but hes said to me hes not getting back together with her. and my friend is even encouraging me to go for it.

[4getmenot]

ah right got it. He isnt your best mates boyfriend at all so not a big issue, just ask him out. Personally i wouldnt want to be 2nd best though.

[LoftyLottie]

I can't see any reason why you should not go out with a single bloke, It doesn't mean you have to commit to a relationship. You sound very young and certainly when I was young I went out with lots of people who who been out with other friends of mine. Just what is the problem exactly?

[selinamc]

yeah i want to but not really sure if hed think it was a good idea. i know he thinks im hot though lol

[LoftyLottie]

I am really puzzzled. Two single people! They both like each other. No commitments on either side? am I missing something?

[4getmenot]

all your posts seem to be about guys and not much, how about enjoying single life and stop thinking you need a man to have fun. You worry too much.

[LoftyLottie]

I don't understand why dates have to thought of in terms of anything more permanent. Blimey, when I was young I played the field and so did most of my friends. There seems to be a tendency now to call someone your boyfriend from the word go!! Have fun. You don't have to make things so serious!!

[bloomwood]

If your friend is encouraging you to go for it,really dont see the problem.

[selinamc]

I like being single, but its always a little bit awkard with your friends ex. I agree with LoftyLottie though. thanks.

[anneasquith]

just leave things as they are for a week or two, and see what happens.

[LoftyLottie]

Just wishing I was young again!! It was fun.

[4getmenot]

hussy! Lol

[LoftyLottie]

Who me? LOL

Twas a long time ago 4get. But I made the most of my single days and have no regrets!! x

[4getmenot]

nor do i! :-)

[welshlibranr]

ditto Lofty!............no regrets here either!...............I had the best time!.........wish I could do it all over again!...............

[karenmac60]

Sounds like he'd be fine for a sh@g but not a relationship. If that's what you're interested in then go for it, if you want more - forget it.

[welshlibranr]

totally agree with karenmac!.............if you want short term, then go for it!.......but beware!.......it will be short term, and that will be it!...........