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in reply to to ffunction - it's not that I dont want a mortgage past 60, its that lenders aren't keen to lend to people who cant pay off mortgage before they retire - therefore, they will only give us a mortgage on a shorter length of time, which increases payments to much more than the rent we pay now..
thanks all for all the answers - most of the answers confirm what I already know, which is to save what I can and try and get somewhere cheaper :)
The shared schemes - or council lists maybe an option
thank you
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