Ok, I have a new bloke I've been with for 7 months. Forget the blah blah blah about that. I wasd with my ex for 6 and a half years. A couple of weeks ago I updated my friends reunited profile and mentioned that me and new man were vey happy, buying a house next year and spend lots of weekends away.
Now ex bloke has updated HIS friends reunited profile. What I want to know is whether he has done this purely becuase I have or whether I'm being paranoid.
My reasons:
a) he waited until the day my profile no longer said "recently updated" before he updated his. b) I mentioned buying a house with my bloek, he said he was buying a house with his new gurl. c) I mentioned going away with my bloke, he said he was going away with his gurl. d) he kenw I was ready ofr children and he was always NO NO NO but in his profile he has put he wants kids soon (is that to **** me off?)
What do you guys think? I know I shouldn't care as I love new man loads and that but it just wanna know whether he has genuinely updated or whether he wants to read it.
you sound like Vicky Pollard.......yeah but no but yeah.......... no offence loike (sic) wouldnt bother about Friends Reunited, cause toooooo much trouble!! : )
I think the whole Vicky Pollard thing is all the Malibu I've had. Normally a respectable intelligent gurl but with the alcohol turns me back to my teenage years lol
Hmmm, if its your ex, what does it matter what he has done to his profile? You obviously have not got over him yet and still have some sort of feelings. What made you go check his profile out anyway? If your new guy was reading your question on here, i guess he would get the feeling that your with him on the rebound. Forget about your ex and just get on your life with your new guy.
If you cant do that, then phone your ex up and ask to meet up with him. Tell him you need to chat. Tell him that you still think of him and wonder why he is different now that you have split up. Tell him that things could have been so different if you had just communicated when you was still together. I thought not...
Sounds to me like he has done it to wind you up, and it has worked, forget him as MrBen says, providing you are with your new boyfriend for the right reasons, why even look at your exs profile ? do you still think of him? would you still be together if he had said yes to children ? Just get it clear in your head what you want and who you want it with, Ray
He is just trying to get to you, but yea he is being stupid about it cos its pretty obvious that he has updated his profile and said all those things purely because you have, i bet he s still got feelings for you, but he seems a bit childish, stick to your new man n try to ignore him lol. xx
hmmm, why are you reading an ex's profile anyway? And why do you care why he's doing some updating? (Since you ask, it does sound like he might be winding you up... if he expected you to look). For the sake of your new man and your new relationship, couldn't you just make a new year resolution not to go googling him for a while?