Hi, I have limited financial knowledge, but I would like to try to help. The stock market generally has shown itself to outperform other types of investments in the long run (over a 20 year period), the risk very much depends on the type of stocks you invest in. Some stocks are risky, but have the potential to pay out well if they come good. When my partner started to invest, he did his homework and read up as much as he could with various financial magazines and newpapers to gain as much information as possible before making his choice. He makes some very good gains and also some losses, but generally makes money. We both hold shares, mine tend to be the safer options and his tend to be the riskier ones, he keeps a close eye on them and places stop losses to call a halt to any potential loss if they look like crashing. What you need to do if you do decide to invest in the market is to keep an eye on the stocks and act quickly if they start to move in a way that you don't like.
I also own a rental property which I bought when prices were very low, now it is worth 4 times what I paid for it. This is a nice pension plan for me as long as prices do not crash too far in the future, if and when we have a crash in the uk! I understand that house prices have fallen dramatically in the states? It may be worth keeping an eye on this and trying to judge when and if you think that prices are at the bottom of the fall. If you can afford to and interest rates are not too high, I would consider a buy to let or owning your own property if you do not already do so.
Whatever you do, I would advise getting as much information as possible, your own research will be much better than getting advice from financial advisors who may have a vested interest in pushing you in a particular direction, best of luck!
Sue