Letting Go....

[joanne84]

Hi all,
I really need to let my ex go but finding it hard! 6 year relationship ended early Feb and 2 months on not feeling any better. Im also 18 weeks pregnant and found out 3 weeks after he ended the relationship - he is fully aware and has explained he will support me 100%. I know now I have something so much more important to focus on but finding it terribly hard to let him go! I know it sounds really immature and I'm telling myself everyday to 'get a grip' but keep finding myself pining after him...a lot! We are still spending time together which is making it harder for me to let go - I know still seeing him is stupid and I should put a stop to it but I cant help myself as I still love him so much. I'm living in our house on my own now and paying all bills myself but looked at my options and staying in the house would be the best decision as baby will be due in approx 4 months. I need to let go asap!!! He has admitted he is happy with his life now and enjoying being single...wish so much I felt the same but finding it really hard! Anybody experienced the same? I know I will feel better soon but atm it does not feel that way.

[4getmenot]

one thing to concentrate on now, the baby, make that the soul thing on your mind, things will all fall into place.

[Ric.ror]

Wheres your mum?
I think you need her at this time
If she's not around don't be afraid to rely heavily on your good friends
You will do the same for them when things start to look up and they soon will