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obviously i know he didnt get it on hp otherwise I would have mentioned that.
ummmm you make a good point, i dont really know my motivation...i wouldnt say jealousy (i'm thankfully in a good situation) i do think though when i hear of people working really hard, declaring & not been able to get anything (i know many people like this) & thats when it infuriates me.
on a different note can someone tell me more on renting out your council flat...i thought this was illegal? In this case it has the council have not been notified, I know this because I know the person its been rented to...its been done between friends.
I'm writing on here because I want to hear people's advice, I have never used the social system so have no idea how it works. A big part of me is thinking that it's none of my business, it doesnt directly affect me (yes I'm a tax payer but i would pay tax anyway regardles of benefit fraud) another part of me thinks of all the people who genuinely need support...so torn!